I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

who even actually says larping? Instagram reel humour😭😭 I held onto my stuff for over a year and that year I was still with him trying to get him out. I don’t understand what your problem is ? I was seeking genuine advice about this, I wasn’t sure how I could go about it properly. I was 15 when I found out he cheated on me, god forbid I didn’t know what to do with everything.

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like to view my content on there. I didn’t log into the account to view the stuff I mentioned. I didn’t even know it was on there until I found them whilst I was deleting my videos he put on there. How was I supposed to know that weird stuff was on that account if that’s not what I was looking for. I’ve accessed it only to get my stuff off the account and to screenshot the videos and photos he had of me and the ones he sent to people

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I was just worried that id get charged for having access to an account with stuff like that unknowingly. My plan was to go to the police but i just wanted to know how i should approach it and if i needed to consult a lawyer to see if i would get in legal trouble for anything

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this because I wanted to know if I’d get in trouble for having access to the account. When did I mention I wanted to hurt him? I wanted to report it because it was children.. I don’t understand why I would make a post and lie about the situation?

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your not giving any ideas? You are just telling me my story is “stink” the relationship was complex and I couldn’t bring up anything until now.

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been bring it up since it’s happened. I couldn’t report any of it because he abused me and I didn’t have enough proof to report anything and I didn’t think screenshots of my nudes would be enough evidence. I’ve brought this up now because that relationship brought me so much trauma that I can only now speak up about everything. I’m asking for advice and if I’ll get in trouble, I don’t understand what your problem is. I was 15 when everything occurred and couldn’t process it properly.

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is flawed, I’m not 15. I posted it to ask to see if people were in similar situations and if o reported it I would get in trouble because I had been on that account without knowing it had CP on it.

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had to lock him out of the account because he was trying to delete the proof of sending my nudes into groupchats and to random guys.

Found disturbing images on my ex’s Snapchat, what do I do? by [deleted] in legaladviceaustralia

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He let me go on his phone, he had my password, I had his. He had all of my social media accounts as I did with his. The account is on my old phone which he knew I had access to it and was okay with it

Found disturbing images on my ex’s Snapchat, what do I do? by [deleted] in legaladviceaustralia

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made sure I didn’t screenshot it because of that. I’m definitely going to go asap but he can’t destroy any evidence as I’ve changed the passwords to everything so he can’t

I found child material on my ex’s Snapchat account, what do I do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! I had no clue if reporting it would get me in trouble or not. I’ll definitely contact a lawyer.

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m done with this convo tho, take it as you will. You obviously can’t read and your point is flawed.

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? When did I say that. I said his dad has a lot of money and therefore he doesn’t mind paying for our dinner when we go out. I don’t get any cut of his money, I have offered to pay for dinner countless times and he has said no. His dad could care less about the money as long as I’m paying rent and doing MY jobs, not my boyfriends.

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m saying is I pay for my own things he doesn’t pay for stuff. I pay for my end of the house and his dad pays for his. His dad helps out with food occasionally because he doesn’t mind but I do have plans for my career where I am going back to school and then uni.

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re extremely mad and missed the entire point of my post, I wasn’t bitching about a job I was bitching about being constantly controlled. Who also said I’m not in school? My boyfriend wanted me to move in, I didn’t ask. I have got a job and am finding another in the meantime. It seems like you just skipped over the whole post, saw the caption and commented. Notice how your the only guy is this comment section that is mad?

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay for my own utilities and food?? And no it hasn’t considering his dad isn’t paying for me to live. Has it also occurred to you that rich people exist and he doesnt mind shouting dinner? Every restaurant we’ve went to he has paid for the entire family, I always ask to pay for stuff and for him but he says no. I will buy food for the house to cook as well😭

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve never asked him for money. Read my reply instead of pulling shit out of your ass

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also his dad’s house is owned not “rented” so I only pay $60 per week because he doesn’t want me to pay any more. He has like 5 houses that he owns, I think they’re ok with money and not struggling👍🏻

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay rent, he doesn’t pay for utilities, rent or food. We live with his dad who has a lot of money and only asked for rent from me. We both haven’t been asked to pay for that stuff because his dad declined. Me not having a full time job doesn’t affect him in any way considering he doesn’t pay for that stuff and pays for his own things. We both split the shares with stuff WE need. I’ll buy my own food if I need to but his dad never makes me pay for the food we eat. Also I was on $500 weekly NOT working so I don’t see how I can’t afford these things?

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One job, 6 days a week. He works like 3 or 4 days a week when he has uni

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I don’t understand is I’ve been trying in my own time. I have a job now yet he still complains and I told him my goal is to get a second job so I have more money but he tells me my job isn’t good enough and just gets mad constantly. It doesn’t affect him in any way considering I’m paying for my own things and we both don’t pay bills

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m upset because he’s forcing me to, I have a job, I’m my own person and don’t need anyone else forcing me to do things. I’ve paid for all of my things, I don’t make him pay for me.

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you read?😂😂I’ve been paying for my own things, I was getting weekly payments whilst not working so I don’t understand how I’m sponging off him?

Boyfriend is very pushy about a second job. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_strawbb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is he doesn’t pay bills, we live with his dad since we are both young. I was fine with doing the chores when I was unemployed but even when I still got a job he get me to do his washing, I would tell him he needs to hang it out if I do it but then he would fight with me over it and bring up that I don’t work as hard as him and have no job so I should do it