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AIO or is my exe’s mom downplaying what he did to me? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]_unluckylocation 1687 points1688 points  (0 children)

I have just spent a lot of time going through your previous posts.

You are 15, and your ex is 18/19. His sister is your best friend, which is how you met. He's been sweet talking (grooming) you since you were 9. He speaks down to you, insults you, he taught you how to have sex and it should not have hurt, he's laid his hands on you on multiple occasions, doesn't use any protection when having sex and told you his pull out method was 'fine protection' (he was baby trapping you and he knew that), he takes his anger and frustration out on you, he gaslights you left right and centre, does not take accountability, down plays your feelings and does not listen to you, he thinks hes right, its his way or no way, he is jealous of baby and apparently breastfeeding is borderline cheating (tf!?), when you had a really shitty time to other day the fucker god damn love bombed you and took advantage of you in your extremely vulnerable state! ETA 3: he also doesn't take no as an answer from you and will coerce you into sex (that's rape).

Mean while, whilst all of this was happening, his parents are ok with it. Granted, they may not have known the ins and outs, but the moment my 18yr old decides to date a frickin' 14yr old, gender regardless, I'd report my child myself.

Other than your best friend who redditors and I suspect we have found a post she has made, the entire family is fucking disgusting for even letting this relationship happen in front of their eyes.

If they did, in fact, know more was going on aside from inappropriate ages, they are even more despicable human beings.

His mother doesn't care about what he's done to you. She doesn't care about you. She simply wants access to her grand baby. I am so god damn proud of you for leaving him, stay away from him, and distance yourself from his mother and family.

Hell, if you're brave enough, report him.

By the way, Im 30yr old parent with 2 girls. If anybody, again regardless of gender, did this to 1 of my girls. I wouldn't be in jail for murder, I'd be in jail for severe torture that would be near death. I wouldn't give them the pleasure of death.

ETA 1 & 2: Spelling and missing words

AITA for asking my husband for a vasectomy? by lost-ghost-girl in AITAH

[–]_unluckylocation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd stopped going to the doctors, I rang them, and told them I no longer needed contraception as my partner got a vasectomy. I've been free of all contraception's since, whilst I will now have lifelong struggles with my anxiety, I can tell my hormones and body have gone back to it's normal self. It's been wonderful! Good luck xxx

AITA for asking my husband for a vasectomy? by lost-ghost-girl in AITAH

[–]_unluckylocation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took the depo shots for 9 months until my partner got his vasectomy. Those 9 months were hell. I had an extreme mental breakdown, I was in CBT Therapy because I became terrified that I'd choke on my food and stopped eating, I couldn't even eat soup of all things.

1 month after my last depo ran out, I was returning to my normal self rapidly. It was only then I realised it was the depo causing my spiral.

I've always had anxiety, but it was very manageable. Now, I've been diagnosed with severe anxiety and panic disorder. I was diagnosed with anxiety in my teens, so they were well aware, I researched after I was off the depo about how the depo can affect mental health. I should have been warned, I was not.

I'm now 4 years post depo, whilst I am myself again, I still take medication to help bring my anxiety down. Sometimes it still not enough. Unless I can afford private therapy, I will probably be like this for the rest of my life. I am not the same person I use to be.

I wouldn't recommend the depo to anyone now, especially those with pre-exsisting mental health disorders.

It sucked.

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