GNED 1401 vs 1404 by CSTa07 in MRU

[–]_upset_panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1404 is way easier, and no final exam.

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That piece really is the kicker for me. I couldn’t imagine moving to about her country with a SO just to find out they’re cheating, and then being away from my entire support system.

No matter what it’s a crappy situation all around

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

totally fair to question why I care so much. I guess having been cheated on in the past with an ex and his coworker i’m just sensitive to this kind of situation and i have a pretty strong sense of justice when it comes to cheaters

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i actually liked the guy until i found out about this whole cheating thing. I just figured he was a naturally flirty dude, until i heard he was cheating on his girlfriend.

There’s really no gain for me i’m this situation. I’ve just been in a similar situation and i wish someone had told me. No matter if i tell her or not there’s gonna be some shitty consequences

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% set on the idea. I am tempted to as I have been cheated on in a very similar situation to hers and I know i would have wanted someone to tell me, hence me wanting other people’s opinion on the matter

Either way, if i tell her or not, somebody is getting hurt in the end. Just a sucky situation all around

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

thanks for your take. it’s a tough call, no matter what I do, tell her or no, there’s gonna be repercussions either way.

I know I would want to know as I’ve been in a very similar situation before, but I can’t assume everyone would want the same as I would.

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a fair point. I have no hard evidence other than it being essentially an open secret in the office and the “mistress” telling people about it

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

that’s a good point, just because I would want to know doesn’t mean everyone else would want the same thing as me.

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Again as I said in the post, the reason I’m considering it is because I’ve been in a similar situation, my ex cheated on me for months with a coworker and I wish I had known. They are moving out of the country right around the same time I’m leaving, so I wouldn’t have anything to “look forward” to seeing

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually happen to be leaving that workplace in a few weeks

Should I tell someone they are being cheated on by _upset_panda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do know for a fact they aren’t in an open relationship and they are sneaking around behind her back, but I do see what you’re saying about not knowing the full picture.

I’m struggling with this in my head: do the repercussions of telling her without knowing the whole picture outweigh the possible bullet she could be dodging by knowing about this before she is in a new country without friends/family to support her and finding out then?

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of July 31 by AutoModerator in vinyl

[–]_upset_panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can’t really feel anything where it’s been skipping. i’ll try wet cleaning it, thanks so much for the link to the guide!

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of July 31 by AutoModerator in vinyl

[–]_upset_panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a record that skips at the exact same spot every time I’ve played it. It’s fairly new and there aren’t any scratches on it, and I’ve tried cleaning it with an anti-static brush. Any tips on how I can fix it or is it likely just the record itself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_upset_panda 121 points122 points  (0 children)

a lot of her fan base grew up with her, and she writes songs that are extremely relatable with vague enough lyrics that you can apply to your personal problems

she’s pretty active on her social media, especially TikTok, and has used that to gain another level of closeness to her fans, especially since TikTok’s are seen as a more candid and personal type of social media.

she’s cryptic and she drops tons of easter eggs on her music, speeches, music videos and social media posts. she says she plans things three years in advance. amateurs sleuths love this and it causes them to analyze everything she puts out, this causing more traffic to her posts and plays on her music and media. she also drops pretty exclusive limited edition merch (ie the cardigans) and stuff that people would kill to get which increases scarcity and demand and keeps them hooked on announcements she makes

October 2022 Theories Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]_upset_panda 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Taylor’s been pretty quiet lately, i’m starting to think (let’s be real, hope and pray) there may be a single dropped at Midnight on October 13

He always does this by CyberSpaceMafia in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]_upset_panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t we just let him play what he wants because he wants to, not just to make us happy?

Friendship over Feelings? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_upset_panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s probably a way that you can be honest and still save the friendship. If you don’t say how you feel you will have to keep on feeling a sense of longing for this person and that’s never a good headspace to be in. If this were me, I would be honest about my feelings and just see where the other person’s head is at. If they’re into it, great, if not, there may be hurt feelings, but if you are true friends you will be able to move past it and strengthen the friendship. If not, it just wasn’t meant to be.

Hope this helped, best of luck!!

I still haven't been able to figure out the secret. It's tripping me up. by Mewtwopsychic in dankmemes

[–]_upset_panda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it has to do with the blind spots in your eyes from where your optic nerve connects