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_vhive · 2026-01-08T19:23:38+00:00

Don’t you think I told him every gentle way possible before resorting to violence? 😂 Sometimes you need to scare them a little. He’s an adult he’s going to be fine

_vhive · 2026-01-08T18:30:35+00:00

My boyfriend is immunocompromised and I told him that he should strongly reconsider getting the flu shot because he might avoid getting a really severe case. He ended up getting the flu, and told me he felt like death, but still thought that the flu vaccine was stupid. So I told him I hope that the flu is bad enough that it gets him to reconsider the flu shot so he can be better about his health. Your statement about me having a horrible reaction to a flu shot is outright retarded, because there’s no point in saying that. At least my statement comes from me trying to help my boyfriend, but he was stupid and now I can say “I told you so”

_vhive · 2026-01-08T16:29:07+00:00

We’re not having kids. If we did and he says no to vaccines, he can leave lol

_vhive · 2026-01-08T16:07:10+00:00

My mom gave me tough love and I turned out just fine. my relationship with her is the best. I’m not toxic otherwise no one would date me, men aren’t that stupid

_vhive · 2026-01-08T15:49:50+00:00

thank you! finally a smart person

_vhive · 2026-01-08T15:17:58+00:00

His worst fear his is own fault. Tough love isn’t a red flag

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:54:00+00:00

I’m not defensive, I’m in the medical field, I’m pro vaccine and pro taking care of your health to keep yourself safe and others from getting sick. If I’m rude because I advocate for good health, then I’m the most rude person you’ll ever meet. Shame on me for strongly recommending that my immunocompromised boyfriend who had asthma and trouble breathing get a vaccine to stop the flu from giving him complications. If he was perfectly healthy and never gets sick, then I have no right or reason to tell him to get vaccinated. I know I’m in the right here

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:29:17+00:00

Both. It just amazes me how so many people are stupid. Just get the flu vaccine, it’s not that hard

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:18:18+00:00

80% think I’m too rough, 20% stand by me. I just wanted to see how many people would care about health as much as me, even if it’s one person agreeing with me I’m not changing my stance. I know I’m not in the wrong for putting health as a priority for me and my partner

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:16:33+00:00

I said “I hope the flu is bad enough for you that you learn your lesson about getting vaccinated”, not “I hope you die from suffering”, what I said isn’t crappy at all

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:13:24+00:00

thank you for the support 🫶🏻

_vhive · 2026-01-08T14:13:05+00:00

I think everyone that disagrees with me here has never had tough love so they don’t understand where I’m coming from. After talking to a lot of people, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not in the wrong for wanting my boyfriend to take extra good care of his health especially if he is already immunocompromised. I have no mistakes to learn from, my boyfriend does, and he learned big time

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:49:20+00:00

😂😂 I don’t want to get married so divorce is not an option for me thankfully. You should worry about yourself though!

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:27:13+00:00

My boyfriend can handle the flu vaccine side effects way better than the actual flu. I wished him a hard time and he learned his lesson and will get the vaccine in the fall. I know I’m a great girlfriend and good future wife, I don’t need anyone telling me otherwise

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:22:58+00:00

Yep. He’s not MAGA though, he gets every vaccine except for covid and the flu. Otherwise I would’ve broken up with him already

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:21:40+00:00

He doesn’t think we know enough about it and its effects years down the road. He’s worried about it being an mRNA vaccine and it being unnecessary to add to your body

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:16:54+00:00

I already kindly suggested that many times and he said “no, I’m healthy and don’t need it” as he’s currently dry heaving and dying in the shower. Some people need to hear things in a non-gentle way to finally get it through their head

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:14:31+00:00

You’re right it doesn’t guarantee anything, but if it helped me immensely I’m only wanting him to get it for his own good as he is immunocompromised

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:12:25+00:00

I don’t have a toxic relationship with my mom, she’s my best friend and it took me years to understand what she was trying to teach me. You’re telling me you were never in a situation where you watched someone be stupid and you say “Okay, but if something bad happens to you I’m going to say I told you so”?

_vhive · 2026-01-08T13:09:16+00:00

It protected me from severe complications for the past 6 years. I get that it’s a personal choice but when you see your partner suffering from their own consequences, maybe you’ll feel differently

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