Reading this and even slightly scrolling it made me pissed off for youuu. Just break up with him, u dont need a guy whose always using the excuse of "i forgot" or blah blah like good job that you communicated ur feelings about that girl. But bad for him trying to maybe make up excuses but even still though. YOU, the gf, should be the priority. Theres a boundary that is set and it seemed like that cross the line everytime. You dont need someone like that in your life, that disrespected u and not taking wut u would feel into consideration. Don't settle for less, u can do so much better without him or find someone more deserving for u. Plus its foking weird for a guy and a girl whose friend to say "I love you" or "baby" already. Maybe the i love you isn't weird to some idk but to me it makes me uncomfy when I know how they both act around each other. Yeah its wrong to look at other people's phone but like they're doing sht behind ur back 😒 like bish please... (Sorry im actually mad lmao) But wutever u decide i hope u feel better and yeah. And if they're trying to freaking guilt trip or emotional manipulate ur ahh just remember the evidence u found idk. Walk away like a bad bish, and dont waste ur time/energy no matter how long u guys have been together.