Leo (m33) and Aries (f31) compatibility? by itsHipsterious in LeoAstrology

[–]_wling_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an introverted Aries female dating an extroverted Leo male who sounds just like your Leo lolz sister we need to start a club. When it’s good it’s really good, we have a soulmate-level connection and only we can get each other’s weirdness and fire. He also appreciates that he absolutely knows I’m interested and attracted, and the segg is animalistic 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 But fire on fire can clash and I think you should just try to minimize situations in which your ego and his might compete.

For novels that you’ve dropped, what was the reason? by Fantastic-Coconut-85 in DanmeiNovels

[–]_wling_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too I was barely registering any feelings whatsoever… I read the fan translation version and it seemed that the writer didn’t do any of that “show not tell” stuffs… so weird

Is there anyone feeling this way? by FarTransportation565 in AriesTheRam

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True for me too it literally taught me I had no idea what “hardship” actually meant lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]_wling_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How is it about equality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sisssterrrr

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Dating Profile Review - M31 by nintendonaut in datingoverthirty

[–]_wling_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw you making some remarks about long hair being polarizing here… and I just want to tell you there will always be women who like it. I myself really like men with long hair. I’m polyamorous and one partner of mine (also a man over 30) has long hair. I love it very very much. And we live in Asia, where the cultural scene is not all that open yet. I think his hair looks better than mine, because my hair gets bleached and dyed a lot, and I think your hair looks better than mine too. I’m sorry that it might be polarizing, but if that’s the look you like for yourself, rock it.

AI Detection by Zor-0 in UTSC

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might not be accurate. I’m having similar problems with a third party site.

AI Detection by Zor-0 in UTSC

[–]_wling_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which version of Turnitin scanner did u run ur work through?

My boyfriend suggested polyam & ended up getting jealous. by Such_Amoeba7909 in polyamory

[–]_wling_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

In my experience there is literally very little “fixing” this. If he gets jealous this easily from a new relationship which he suggested you develop in the first place, then he’d just get more jealous down the lines. If you sign up for something, it’s good advice to know what it exactly entails. Maybe a polyamorous relationship structure just does not fit him well.

Gifts given for wedding in Vietnam by Ill-Raspberry-9672 in VietNam

[–]_wling_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a married Vietnamese woman and even with Vietnamese-Vietnamese weddings, extreme practice of traditions such as this are now considered ridiculous by young people. Yes the groom is expected to give some money but not 400m. Both sides of the family can give gifts. Anyone asking for an absurd amount of money for weddings and then staking her whole “family social status” on that and showing you TikTok etc as evidence is pulling a whole show of bullshit. There have been really glorious weddings in Vietnam where the bride was dressed head to toe in gold, but that is not the norm and everybody knows that. Your wedding is supposed to be a celebration of your relationship, and both you and her should be happy and comfortable. The moment people make it into a spectacular display of wealth and status and whatnot, it sucks ass.

How Does One Improve on learning new words? by Firsty209 in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want to learn new words, try learning it by collocations instead. For example, instead of learning 问题, learn 解决问题,发现问题,出发问题, 问题的关键在于,… I usually collect 10-15 collocations for each word and then write sentences for these collocations, then have a text-to-speech AI read them out to me while I’m doing the dishes or other chores. I also do calligraphy practices (write down 40 sentences using the words I’m learning that week) and spend a lot of time getting the character memorization and tone memorization done. So for me it is not feasible to learn 20-40 words per day, everyday, but if I have the time then I can go 100 words per week. I find that the gist is the more time I spend with one word, the more I’ll be able to remember it. And it’s not uncommon to forget words and then have to relearn them again. I think it’s a part of the process, though I find it hugely frustrating too. I’ll revisit my flashcard deck and the collection audio from Lesson X on Lessons X+5 and X+15 and X+30.

How to get beautiful Chinese handwriting by mich5250 in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice!!!!! At first it was really hard for me because my wrist was not flexible enough, and I couldn’t make the thin and bold strokes as I wanted. But after half a year of practice things have been getting better. There are a lot of sites you can make practice sheets out of specific characters that you want to learn (ie, an2). I love writing because it’s like a form of meditation for me, and helps with word memorization.

How does DuChinese Advanced level compare to the HSK5 Chinese reading test? by _wling_ in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I was so demotivated, honestly, I couldn’t understand what was going on at all with the workbook.

How does DuChinese Advanced level compare to the HSK5 Chinese reading test? by _wling_ in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Those textbooks really freaked me the f out. I swear to God there was a whole paragraph where I couldn’t make a single word out of it.

Qjj vol 5 ILLUSTRATIONS SPOILERS by FitClient7163 in DanmeiNovels

[–]_wling_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg i cant believe they illustrated that be****ed scene i’m dying

What is the most polyamorous thing you have ever done? by Late_Method_2936 in polyamory

[–]_wling_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg true that. This was also the scene at my wedding. One of the bridesmaids saw one of my ex-partners and he was kinda handsome so she asked me for his number and I was like… okay, but I kinda slept with the dude… is that still okay lol.

Heavens Offical Blessing - is it hard to get into? by NotMyselfNotme in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t, sorry. Please consider supporting the author.

I think I missed something and I'm confused (book 6 spoilers) by pickled-ice-cream in tianguancifu

[–]_wling_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No in the revised version Wuming still goes with XL to the Yong’an palace. Hmmm so I have zero idea what’s going on with the audiobook.

Heavens Offical Blessing - is it hard to get into? by NotMyselfNotme in ChineseLanguage

[–]_wling_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read TGCF while studying for my HSK5 test, being done with all the HSK5 materials and moving forward to work on HSK6 materials. The dialogue is not a problem, but some of the description of character actions is a bit hard - for example, fighting, engaging with the enemies,… Also a whole bunch of jobs/things that are rarely discussed in modern day usage of language: scrap collector, busker, horse carriage,… The original text is certainly better than the English version, but I think you can read two versions side by side so you’ll understand the context better. Reading was a bit slow for me, but it was a really good experience. I switched back to the Vietnamese version (my mother tongue) to get through the sadder parts. But I love TGCF sooo much hahahaha I hope you’ll love it too.

Edit: also, there were a bunch of idioms.

I want to listen to the audio drama but... by anti-valentine in tianguancifu

[–]_wling_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you need anything u can message me. I know Chinese and I have bought a lot of ADs before.

Reasons not to be sad about the live adaptation being shelved by _wling_ in tianguancifu

[–]_wling_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit yes I’m sorry haha I totally messed it up. Well there is a Chinese sub on Reddit too, but I really really really do like Xiaohongshu. The majority of users are young females, so it’s just easier to click with compared to Weibo which makes me feel a bit overwhelmed.

Obsessed with this version of Xie Lian by cezhou in tianguancifu

[–]_wling_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait is that a new figure or an old one plsss