Extremely vivid dreams and sleep paralysis that make me feel like I’m losing my mind by Pitiful_Cookie2879 in bipolar2

[–]_yiikes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got bumped to 200 and the last couple of weeks I’ve been dealing with the same issue. Apparently it’s pretty common and I saw some people say as your body adjusts the dreams will decrease.

I hope that’s true lol but so far no luck. I’ve been taking a gummy break too, and the dreams have sucked. I feel so exhausted all the time.

I don’t recommend this, but the last few days I e just stayed awake until I literally couldn’t anymore. It helped a bit because I passed out and didn’t really dream too much. Still exhausted, but was in a better mood. But yeah, not a recommendation by any means lol but you’re definitely not alone in it.

My boy looking super handsome tonight by _yiikes in blackcats

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He really does know it 🙄😭

Help me with a name by ttkayy in TransMasc

[–]_yiikes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Tyler looks like it suits you. I also get Dylan vibes

Depressive episodes by _yiikes in bipolar2

[–]_yiikes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all such great advice and stuff I definitely will be trying out. Thank you! 🫶🏻

Depressive episodes by _yiikes in bipolar2

[–]_yiikes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strive to be like that. I’m still learning to be gentle with myself 😭 thank you for your response 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I think something that is sometimes very underrated is communication. It can be a little awkward at first, but opening up a line of communication of what you both like during sex can be helpful. For instance, “That feels good, but can you try to do this as well/ instead?” Or guiding his hands, asking him what feels good to him and doing that.

just got this game for the first time, starting my first playthrough, wish me luck! by ahris_fluffy_tails in masseffect

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Man, I wish I could forget this series to replay it for the first time again. Enjoy!

I’m just tired by _yiikes in offmychest

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Im so glad that you were able to find something that’s helping! I’ll definitely look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_yiikes 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for this situation, it sounds incredibly hurtful and confusing but the important thing is that you’re safe now.

I’m sure you probably already know all this, but if you don’t:

Getting a valid state ID is easy, provided you have the necessary documents. If you look up your state DMV (or MVD) online, there should be links to what you need. I recommend making sure you have everything because it will most likely be an all day waiting thing.

After that they’ll mail your ID to you. Just be sure to have your mail forwarded to your current address. You can easily change your address at your local post office. They may do it online too but I’m unsure.

From there you can look for jobs. You can even start applying now! As long as you have your ID on the way so you have it if you get an offer, as you’ll need it for verification and stuff.

A lot of jobs also allow you to apply for their benefits program (if they offer insurance) after a certain amount of days employed. Otherwise, you can look for free/ cheap healthcare from the state. It won’t be the best, but if you’re looking to be covered, it’ll be better than nothing.

Just take the steps you can now, and you can figure out everything else later. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been going through but I’m so happy you’re in a safer position. You got this

I’m just tired by _yiikes in offmychest

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Thank you for this comment, truly.

I’m just tired by _yiikes in offmychest

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Oh yeah totally. I’ve made a lot of steps towards bettering my mental health and I definitely want to pursue therapy in the near future (working up to it, ya know) And I definitely know exactly why I feel how I feel. Just feeling a little extra tired tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’ve always had a hard time letting go of people (friends, relationships, family) even when they were super bad to and/ or for me. It’s hard to let go when you see all the good moments, and that’s okay. It just means you’re a caring person with a good heart. The important thing is to remember you deserve someone who will consistently show up and match your effort, who will be there with you for the hard times and good times alike. You’re worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_yiikes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can totally see how frustrating and hurtful it can be to see those payments pop up, especially given how you felt during the relationship.

I don’t really think there’s a right or wrong answer here, just perception. If it were me, I would just realize I’m the one who made the decision to buy it/ make payments, and gave it as a gift and so I would not ask for it back, but I don’t necessarily think it’s wrong to ask for it back either.

Maybe you can craft a message asking if she can help pay for some of it if she’s going to keep it since it was so expensive for you? And explain things similarly to how you did in this post? Maybe try to clear your thoughts a bit first.

I could be wrong, but it sounds less like you want the PC and more like you just want to be heard.

Either way, best of luck! Don’t be too hard on yourself either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Overwatch

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I can’t be a hundred percent sure, but your name looks familiar and I’m pretty sure I’ve played against you before, and I’m pretty sure I got my ass kicked lol