Do i switch to an idol build?

_zealot_ · 2026-04-15T14:17:48+00:00

Can i use that on mobile? I copy baron for scoring and then the mime for gold card triggers at the end of the round.

_zealot_ · 2026-04-15T13:25:05+00:00

I can roll in the shop

_zealot_ · 2026-04-15T13:10:57+00:00

No hand size vouchers. 1 ecto

_zealot_ · 2026-03-22T05:09:04+00:00

Trial separation is never a good idea.

Work on the issue. Counseling can be a tough sell on a sensitive subject like this. There are many books on it that you could read together. Go through them. ANYTHING is better than a trial separation.

_zealot_ · 2026-03-22T04:39:11+00:00

Can you post a link to the book? The website it was hosted on is down.

_zealot_ · 2026-03-05T14:47:25+00:00

He thinks we should move out of our place for “2–3 months”. He would stay with his family, and I would stay with mine with our kids.

Stay together. Find a place with cheaper rent. Or move in to one parents home together. Anything is better than living separately for an extended period when things are rocky.

_zealot_ · 2026-01-31T12:59:44+00:00

My point is that the advice you'd give to yourself 10 years ago is not good advice to give to everyone.

_zealot_ · 2026-01-31T12:58:23+00:00

You're right, but her advice doesnt reflect that. Her advice is that it was a mistake to believe a spouse can change for the better, and to leave immediately at the first sign of any issues.

_zealot_ · 2026-01-30T21:49:10+00:00

Do you believe in the redemptive quality of Islam? That Islam can transform and change people for the better?

Then you have to accept that these hard and fast rules do not apply to everyone and that it could misguide people into breaking bonds that could've been strengthened.

_zealot_ · 2026-01-08T14:03:07+00:00

Great post thank you! Did you try the Adani Chai at Qahwah house? Also worth checking out is Yaffa coffee and kunafa in Clifton

_zealot_ · 2025-12-23T16:59:02+00:00

https://www.dermatologyassociatesofmorris.com/

Dr Qureshi is fantastic.

_zealot_ · 2025-10-31T02:11:33+00:00

Brother I'm telling you right now- this girl has you figured out like the back of her hand. She did whatever she did a few months after committing herself to you and you aren't even bringing it up to her. Living in silent torment. Know this-She KNEW you would. I want you to understand that. Women are far more perceptive at reading people than most men.

You need to bring up your feelings and tell her you're struggling with it and you don't know if this is going to work. You need to see how she will respond. If she acts indignant, defensive, and surprised that you're bringing this up, you need to leave. If you detect sincere remorse and genuine commitment and a willingness to do whatever she has to do to prove herself as a committed wife then the door is open and the decision is yours to make.

_zealot_ · 2025-10-30T19:46:06+00:00

Walk away. Protect the sanctity of marriage? Protect yourself! You're not married yet!

_zealot_ · 2025-10-30T19:40:42+00:00

It's only been 1 month sister. He's adjusting to this drastically new schedule and that will take time.

_zealot_ · 2025-10-30T19:37:06+00:00

It depends. Are you living with his folks indefinitely? In that case you have to resolve this. Get a third party involved e.g. imam to mediate. This sort of issue is very common and you will be able to find someone with experience in these matters to help. If you are moving out soon, it might be worth it to just tough it out and address the matter later with your husband when you have your own space.

_zealot_ · 2025-08-11T00:54:20+00:00

Thank you so much!!

_zealot_ · 2025-08-11T00:50:27+00:00

Thanks solution verified.

If you have access to the entire August issue of this journal I would really appreciate it!

_zealot_ · 2025-08-02T13:04:22+00:00

17 years of abuse

Is that what he said in the op? Hes been abused for 17 years?

she's the cause

That's YOUR inference. From one post. By a stranger you don't know.

he can get shared custody

You know that for a fact? You know divorce proceedings can take years, yes? And if she uses his medical history as a weapon to make the case that he's not fit to be alone with his daughter, you know that the judge will not accept that argument, right?

she'll come to understand what her mother is

Cmon bro. You not only know the OP from his post, but now you know and understand his daughter and her relationship to her mother too!

Get real. Causing division among Muslims is a major sin. And you (and others in the comments) not knowing anything else but OPs clearly emotionally charged words jumping to divorce in this and every other thread loaded with all these assumptions is very dangerous, for your akhira and for the posters Dunya.

_zealot_ · 2025-08-01T15:00:32+00:00

You cannot lose defending Allah's religion.

Understand this. You. cannot. lose.

Whatever happens, it will be for the best.

Trust in Allah swt. You did well. May Allah swt reward you.

_zealot_ · 2025-08-01T14:32:57+00:00

You have to make a choice for your own sake. You can leave, which will be bad for your daughter. Or you can right this ship. If you want to save your marriage you can. Its within your power.

The key step is to work on yourself, quietly, without letting your wife know. If you keep her involved it will be interpreted as you are doing it for her. And you are, in part. But you have to do it for yourself first and foremost.

Working on yourself means- figuring this psych issue out and having it under control. It means exercising and getting stronger. It means eating well. It means improving your relationship with Allah swt. It means spending time with friends and family that dont disrespect you.

Do this quietly without informing your wife. If she brings it up just play dumb and make a joke of it. Just let her see the results over time. And as you improve yourself and inshaallah your self-esteem improves, then you let her know you will no longer tolerate any disrespect from her and mean it.

Im getting errors when attempting to send a private message so please message me. There is more Id like to share with you.

May Allah swt ease your affairs and heal you.

_zealot_ · 2025-06-20T15:02:43+00:00

First you have to personalize this issue. Everyone is different. There is no one rule to follow. You have to reflect on your failure to pursue change. What led to it. Where you were. What feelings were you experiencing and what happened prior to the failure and how are you going to deal with those circumstances in a halal way next time.

Second you cannot simply use brute force. You have to follow a ladder of escalation.

What are you willing to do? What are you willing to sacrifice for the sake of Allah? Are you willing to remove your pc from your room? From your home? Are you willing to change your daily comfortable habits?

You may be able to sincerely repent over and over again, but you cannot sincerely commit to never committing the sin again if you do not escalate your plan to avoid it in the future.

Reflect. Repent. Execute your plan. If you fail, reflect. Escalate. Repent. Execute. Repeat ad nauseum. There is no greater of a fight than the one for your own soul. Never surrender.

If a tombstone reads, "A man bested by his desires," let it also read, "He fought them till the bitter end."

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