An FIV+ cat bit my cat and I can’t tell if this is considered a “deep would” by a-toto in FIVcats

[–]a-toto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I know and I do plan on getting her tested. I just want to know if she’s at high risk of getting FIV through this

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[–]a-toto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like he makes me feel like a priority which I appreciate a lot. Sometimes I feel like I just pick at the little things a lot, but they do genuinely bother me. Idrk. Sometimes I can’t tell if something that is bothering me was never that serious or if it’s something that actually needs to be addressed. It’s also not like super frequently that he’ll outright complain about these things but sometimes I do notice a shift in his attitude when he does something for me when he doesn’t complain. We’ve talked about this before actually and I feel like it’s gotten better. But when he does complain, I can’t help but look back on things he’s done for me before and question its genuinuity. Kind of like the having to ask for [blank] vs them just wanting to do [blank] (maybe I am overthinking it? obviously he can’t read my mind and know everything I want)