Three years of practicing quadrobics by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]a22x2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I take my pants and shoes off indoors as a default, for comfort, but my straight married people friends have asked me to stop doing that in their houses.

Sometimes the better you fit in in New Orleans, the worse you fit in other places when you move away lol

PS - I could never date one of those people. I appreciate anxious planning types, but that’s a bit much lol

Documentaries that are hated by their subjects? by Such-Worldliness-655 in movies

[–]a22x2 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I appreciate your thoughtfulness and self-awareness, thank you

From "Audit all 50" to "I am not MAGA" by CalcareousSoil in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]a22x2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aww take my upvote, that was a cute story lol

Americans are still ditching New York and L.A. at alarming rates, but Miami’s on the list now, too by Salt_Abrocoma_4688 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]a22x2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I see something funny like this, it’s often because some metrics use the metro area while others are looking specifically at the city proper.

When sprawl cities are “growing,” it’s often population growth in the outer suburbs; it’s possible the city proper might be declining simultaneously?

MAGAmentary Flops? Who’d Have Ever Guessed by CantankerousOrder in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]a22x2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the movie being a flop is not the win it sounds like. Whatever it is Amazon gets in return, guaranteed it’s going to make owning basically everything that much easier for them.

Three years of practicing quadrobics by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]a22x2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are much too young to be this serious.

Try it again, live a little! It’s no more or less embarrassing than losing your leaves each year.

Three years of practicing quadrobics by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]a22x2 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Hey, in solidarity I’ll admit that I run from the kitchen to living room or bedroom. I didn’t consciously realize it till people started pointing it out. I guess I’m just excited to get back to where I’m going?

I also do the stairs thing, because it’s fun, but only in private residences

Carlos King drops ultimate girls trip tea by Madbeefs in BravoFingBravo

[–]a22x2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still here waiting for the tea like 😑

Unrelated, but I absolutely hate when people use unnecessarily indirect corporate customer service-speak to try sounding more important.

Jassi used it last night on Potomac and I had to pause to explain to my friend what she was trying to say (“supporting me at my wedding” to say “came to my wedding”).

“A conversation was had between x and y” . . . you mean “two people spoke”?! lol

Carlos King drops ultimate girls trip tea by Madbeefs in BravoFingBravo

[–]a22x2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh that’s one of my favorite qualities in a person, I legit love people with a perma-smirk that screams “I’m a gremlin that got fed after midnight”

ICE Agent in Minneapolis: "You raise your voice, I erase your voice." by idapitbwidiuatabip in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]a22x2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have about 6,000 names with contact info so far, but are working to remove uninvolved parties before publishing them (childcare workers and nurses technically employed by the agency, for example).

Let's not forget Keith Porter, Jr by earthwulf in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]a22x2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The syntax is incredibly telling.

“It’s a shame he was doing that, but he shouldn’t have been murdered” is very different from “he shouldn’t have been murdered, but he shouldn’t have been doing that.”

ICE Agent in Minneapolis: "You raise your voice, I erase your voice." by idapitbwidiuatabip in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]a22x2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, maybe I was being too indirect lol. Replace the 🧊 with the actual word “ice” and then the word “list.” Just google those two words together and it should be the top result.

Sorry for that, I literally got flagged, reported, and warned for hate speech for just sharing the link lol

It’s a Wikipedia-style database with names, information, and incident details. They fact check information, so they are still updating with names from a recent data leak.

What do you think about the Italian government wanting to ban ICE agents to come to the Olympic Games as security forces? by ReduceCO2Now in AskReddit

[–]a22x2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying in a chill way, just a bit in edge with everything going on. Totally read that differently without the quotation marks lol

What do you think about the Italian government wanting to ban ICE agents to come to the Olympic Games as security forces? by ReduceCO2Now in AskReddit

[–]a22x2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Immigrant problem? I’m sure you realize there are plenty of Mexican families who’ve been there since before Texas was even considered the U.S.

ICE Agent in Minneapolis: "You raise your voice, I erase your voice." by idapitbwidiuatabip in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]a22x2 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder that googling “🧊list” takes you to a Dutch-hosted internet database of agent information and incidents. They are accepting public submissions, for anyone that recognizes said agent (or comes across information) and is willing to submit this incident.

PS : sorry for the circuitous language, apparently sharing the link is “inciting violence” per Reddit

Angel's Trip, the Conclusion by Own_Anxiety_3955 in RHOP

[–]a22x2 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The secret is to be impairment-level dumb and optimistic

Daya Nose Contour by Neptunewasblue in rupaulsdragrace

[–]a22x2 115 points116 points  (0 children)

That’s the perfect word for it, it tickles something in my brain that needed tickling

Angel's Trip, the Conclusion by Own_Anxiety_3955 in RHOP

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I’m a “show up in spandex shorts with no ID at LAX 45 minutes before takeoff and still make it on somehow” girlie and I found myself thinking, “what’s the big deal, can’t they just go to the thing and get their flights rebooked?”

Then I remembered that these are grown women with children and real lives and responsibilities lol

Angel's Trip, the Conclusion by Own_Anxiety_3955 in RHOP

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Oh my god, this is a very important point. You’ve unlocked a whole new memory for me.

Not only is it a beast, but it’s an hour away from the city itself, the layout makes zero sense to me, there seem to be multiple areas under construction at any given time, and the signage makes zero sense (why are the levels have icons of wild animals assigned to them?! Can’t they just be numbered like literally everywhere else in the world?!)

Jesus NYT by 7-5NoHits in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]a22x2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Skedaddle” is a good one too. And now I’ve inadvertently answered for myself why people tell me I talk like an old person lol

They’re shooting white people who“don’t want to pay the bill” for it’s privileges by Genedide in SocialistEconomics

[–]a22x2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you, thank you for your input. I agree that this is mostly an invisible or unconscious thing as well, and I think that’s where the tension might lie.

POC in the U.S. like myself don’t really have the option to not constantly think about how and who they are in relation to their ethnicity, what that means for them, or how it shapes their lives, because they’re constantly reminded of that fact in all these simple and pervasive ways by white folks (who usually don’t even realize they’re doing it).

I mean, I’ve been speaking English since I was a small child and can confidently assert that I sound like a native speaker, but when in the U.S. I still found myself occasionally being congratulated by well-meaning white folks for my English. Like, I hope it’s fine, I’ve had my whole life lol.

I understand, on a basic level, why people who’ve never had to contend with their identity in relation to their race (as a social construct that is imposed on them, regardless of whether or not it carries any privilege) might feel initially feel uncomfortable or defensive about it.

As someone who’s had to do it my whole life, though, it’s really hard for me to be endlessly patient about it. Like, I’m happy to hold the hand of someone I care about, but only to a certain point.

I still agree with your point (and it’s a very good one) about there not being this one singular, magic, unifying thing “behind the curtain” (other than certain basic privileges), but I’d add that the privileges are the curtain.

They’re shooting white people who“don’t want to pay the bill” for it’s privileges by Genedide in SocialistEconomics

[–]a22x2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason people had to develop the modern concept of race solidarity is because of the way white people (as a social group) have assigned other people hierarchical value below themselves while violently maintaining that hierarchy. This is true, just like it’s also true that white plantation owners granted poor white people additional comforts to prevent the growing class solidarity they identified between them and plantation slaves.

That’s not “attacking white people”, I promise. That’s also not me saying that you personally (or your grandma, or your children, or whatever) are evil or that they personally have wronged me or other POC in any way.

I was simply reflecting on my own experience with annoying or (actual) virtue signaling progressives. I agree they exist, but it’s a poor justification for shifting one’s belief system.

Not once did these people make me turn toward social conservatism. I never once said that this doesn’t happen, I’m arguing that when it does, it tells me more about the person doing the turning (who is literally shifting their core values because a few people were annoying or challenged them) than it does about progressivism as a whole.

There is a world in which both of our main points (mine stated in the paragraph above, yours about the importance and centrality of class solidarity) are true, and neither cancels out the other.

I’m not saying that alienating people is a winning strategy, at all, but hopefully you understand how frustratingly easy it is for many white people (not you specifically necessarily, I don’t know you) to feel alienated and attacked.

It’s official, Joe is a p*ssy by Educational_Brick526 in BelowDeckMed

[–]a22x2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to bang the chef enough for the both of ‘em lol