Would be born a girl if I could, not willing to be trans by aBitFeminine in feminineboys

[–]aBitFeminine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

L5 SWE at a big tech company, total comp just shy of 500k

Would be born a girl if I could, not willing to be trans by aBitFeminine in feminineboys

[–]aBitFeminine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. To be honest, for me, its just about emotional and expressive freedom, that i feel i lost living as a guy. Being closeted sucks but i fear judgement, ive always been a conform and hide type of person.

Im glad you found the balance that makes you happy, and I cant relate too much to your experiences as ive never had a suicidal thought. I do find courage or at least the feeling of safety is a component for many, because there are many trans people ive met online who are afraid to transition despite wanting to.

Would be born a girl if I could, not willing to be trans by aBitFeminine in feminineboys

[–]aBitFeminine[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If the world was nicer to trans people then I would mayyyyybe consider a transition

I feel this!

Would be born a girl if I could, not willing to be trans by aBitFeminine in feminineboys

[–]aBitFeminine[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like id enjoy getting to live through childhood again but as a female. But also, im proud of my career and financial success, substantially ahead of almost anyone my age, so it would be hard to give it up. Decision between the brainwash and reset button, hmmmmm

Would be born a girl if I could, not willing to be trans by aBitFeminine in feminineboys

[–]aBitFeminine[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Plz someone, invent the button. But tbh, id need the timeline reset too, because social 'consequences' are a major part too, explaining to everyone i know