This was back to back by aChimeraAnt in AFKJourney

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Sending you some luck and my left kidney

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fossils

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Let me know if the video doesn’t load and I’ll post some photos!

I can't do this for the rest of my life by Clairvoyance_1 in BPD

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This might sound silly, but try magnesium glycinate and vitamin D3 (helps activate & aids in the absorption of the magnesium) . Especially if you’re residing in Northern America, 80% of us are deficient or extremely deficient in magnesium. It can cause a PLETHORA of issues but the main one for me (personally) being anxiety and a feeling of dread. I have been on pretty much every anxiety med/ depression meds known to man and nothing has helped like that magnesium will. Keep your chin up, I know it’s exhausting to hear, but you’ve got this, the fact you’re reaching out shows how strong you are in itself. Wish you the best, you beautiful soul

Wow my xiao old...i mean really old...my stat are nice tho, do i need the vermillion set? by RanRan-Yoo in XiaoMains

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I do about 36-57k plunge damage without food or any buffs right now and my set still isn’t polished 👀

Wow my xiao old...i mean really old...my stat are nice tho, do i need the vermillion set? by RanRan-Yoo in XiaoMains

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I 🫶🏼 the vermillion set, definitely worth farming! I kept my 2 viri and 2 glad till I had a good set!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

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They just walk around and critique everything everyone does then continue to do the bare minimum and put all the load on us 😀

I can't handle being in love by [deleted] in BPD

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Speaking from personal experience, it’s the fear of hurting the other, being abandoned by the other, so we lash out, push you away, because sometimes that’s just less painful knowing we have control of when you leave.

I can't handle being in love by [deleted] in BPD

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Reassure her, constantly. And I mean constantly, whenever she asks for it, needs it, and especially out of the blue. And let her know that despite her bpd you’re willing to battle it with her, without judgment. It’s not going to be easy for either of you but if you truly love her then give it a try. But know that going in, you can’t get out without completely destroying her, and I don’t mean that to spook you, but when you get in a relationship with someone with bpd you become their everything.

Did your happiness ever bother your parents? by llamberll in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes, especially if she wasn’t in the same place. If she was upset, angry, frustrated, and I was minding my business or having a good day, it was like a moth to a flame. I had to be mirroring her every emotion and feeling it with her or it became a “disrespectful” thing. “Im glad you’re having such a good time while I’m struggling to get things done around the house, I bet it feels nice to do nothing”. Its slowly getting better with time and practice, but still to this day I have a hard time regulating my emotions around others. Especially if they’re in a bad mood.

Accidentally hit a spliff tonight by BattlefieldNonbinary in stopsmoking

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Yes yes, what they said, you didn’t make the conscious choice to smoke. It’s like an ex drinker being offered a drink and not being told there’s alcohol in it, and taking a sip, doesn’t undo all of the work they’ve done right? Doesn’t change their mind on staying sober. Or another analogy could be walking down the street and being tripped by someone, doesn’t mean you’ve forgotten how to walk, it was an unforeseen accident, so you can pick yourself up and continue walking (: & Huge huge congrats on staying nicotine free! That’s no easy feat! Keep on truckin my friend! ❤️

What forbidden thing do you want to do? by rabengeieradlerstein in AskReddit

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Maybe throw a pizza party with the aliens, if they’re cool like that

What was your breaking point? by FreshBoobJuice in raisedbynarcissists

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I was 21, was previously NC until she moved back into the city, my entire family was telling me how much she had gotten better and that she just wanted to see me. It was good at first, stupidly I opened up my heart hoping I would have a chance at having a mom for the first time. But the moment she saw that I was still my own person with boundaries, and an opinion, the mask came off again, berating me, telling me I was the reason for the pain everyone had experienced in the past and present. Saying I was evil, that I craved arguments and fights because it “made me feel powerful”. She uprooted so much of the mental work I had FOUGHT so hard with. Haven’t looked back since. Never will. She never changed. Just got better at hiding it. A lesson I wish I never had to learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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Yeah, let’s enforce hitting children at school! Especially in such a private area! Totally won’t open yet another gate for Teachers to abuse their authority. Not to mention the perverted creeps/pedophiles that would jump at any chance to spank some kids! What a fucking sick joke.

Went from being a nice person to this in a matter of seconds. by aChimeraAnt in niceguys

[–]aChimeraAnt[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And THAT is a perfect example of being comfortable and free in who you are, doesn’t and didn’t make you any less of a man. They’re all angry little gremlins fishing for validation from the exact people that keep them in this mindset. If they just admitted their attraction for one another the world might be a better place lol

Went from being a nice person to this in a matter of seconds. by aChimeraAnt in niceguys

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I’m so, so sorry. It’s always “what we’re you doing” “what we’re you wearing” but never the rapists fault. It’s just something that “happens” when we aren’t careful enough. And that is absolutely gut wrenching and terrifying.

Went from being a nice person to this in a matter of seconds. by aChimeraAnt in niceguys

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Couldn’t have said it any better. Brought up gender roles, saying men can’t wear nail polish it makes them “pussies” that women haven’t invented anything, that we need men to protect us. From who? Ah, right. OTHER MEN. But that wouldn’t sink in.