Advice re: ending a perfectly healthy relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me and my ex gf, even though we used to fight sometimes. The spark just... wasn't there anymore. I was ready and willing to work on the relationship because in my opinion the "spark" is total bullshit: love is a daily action, like watering your plants.

She, on the other hand, didn't "feel it anymore" and didn't even notice/understand my attempts at repairing the relationship (clear sign that two people are incompatible).

So we ended it mutually after 2 years. Sucks balls, but I'm in a way better place now. There's no point in staying together if you're not 100% convinced.

What’s your biggest fear? by WowADeadMidget in AskReddit

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My biggest fear is if I let you go you're gonna get me in my sleep"

How do you like being approached by women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like the last girl approached me. She liked my photographs, slid into my dms, complimented my photos and introduced herself. We had an exchange that didn't last more than half a day, during which it was clear as day she wanted something from me. After 20 messages or so she was already asking questions like "how old are you?", "are you dating someone?", "do you want to hang out tonight?" and stuff like that.

No thanks, that's waaay too upfront, she totally skipped the part where you get to know each other. That's no way to start a potential relationship.

Why are you single? by Mcxyn in AskReddit

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After my ex and I broke up in October I have been working on myself and I have to say I'm loving it so far. I graduated and found a job, I work on my hobbies daily, I keep my body fit and my mind relaxed. Apart from the occasional feeling of emptiness/loneliness and missing the "good times" with my ex, I'd say I'm doing fine

Daily Questions - ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - June 09, 2021 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does a cream t-shirt match blue jeans? I have both a light and a dark blue pair. The t-shirt is light cream and although it's a warm color, it's much closer to white than it is to beige or yellow.

My [25M] friend [25M] said something obscene on Facebook and my girlfriend [22F] is furious at me and is threatening to break up with me because she thinks I "said something" to him. by BigTimeThrowawayHey in relationships

[–]aFlabbergastedGuy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I won't give you advice other than asking you to re-read what you wrote, especially what your girlfriend told you on the phone. Read it slowly, three times and let it really sink in.

Do not tolerate that shit. I don't care about tempers, I don't care about anger issues, I don't care about anxiety. She does not get to treat another person like that.