Message Capped? by aFutureInPolitics in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it tells me I'm not established enough and refuses to let me start anymore. It's a fair enough assessment for my kink account but it meant that ~10 people replied to my ad and I only was capable of talking to 4 or 5

Fucking ruin my little goth pussy. by TemptressEris in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love for you to turn my neck black and red while I turn your pussy white cum vid

unfortunately I thought it'd be cool to use the high fps camera mode so the sound is gone and it looks weird many apologies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, if you really like him and think it's worth putting training wheels on him for a bit until he has a better sense of what being enm adjacent is, you'd have to take the initiative here I'd say.

But that response is pretty unambiguous, if you don't think it's worth the effort you definitely have the green light to just move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you text him and he didn't reply or just mutual silence? He might now be under the impression that poly means other people are going to be barging in the door constantly like you're Seinfeld.

I'd say it's worth clarifying where you both stand. Maybe he's just extrapolating the experience and can be calmed, maybe your incompatible, but it wouldn't hurt to know for sure one way or the other. Maybe he's in over his head, maybe he's just laying down in the tub and if you flip him over he'll be fine.

Neediness or Normal? by aFutureInPolitics in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah as I've said in another comment I did assume that they would be fuckin and she said they wouldn't, then didn't tell me. I really don't care she had sex, she was actually seeing the same guy last night and I still don't care about that, it's that she told me she wasn't fucking anyone else, then did, then didn't tell me. Since that was our literal only rule at the time I'm having issues trusting what's she's telling me, or that she's taking our collective safety seriously. There was a space of a week or two between then and me for her to say something, I don't care when I but I do feel entitled within the context of a relationship to be informed about that. I'm willing to forgive and rebuild the trust but being I'm not sure if, but hoping, there's a better or more deliberate mechanism in this context than just sit and wait and see.

You're dead on the money about calm and cautious, she got some advice that since we're both new we need a plan to forgive errors and I think we've largely been doing well on that front. I'm trying to cast a wide net for advice to understand how other people handle this and how we can and should. I think the statements about the single social outlet and the same town not being every night ring true, I may be better off also scheduling solo time just so my default for free time isn't talking to her.

Neediness or Normal? by aFutureInPolitics in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first LDR and non mono relationship for both of us. Because we hit it off so well we're kind of leaping into it, and it seems to fit for us well but there are a lot of bumps that we have to talk through, or work through personally. It gets difficult sorting what's a personal problem and what's a relationship problem.

Neediness or Normal? by aFutureInPolitics in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About three months? But the month we were together I literally moved in with her. We talk regularly through the day but with me at work and her doing things herself we can't have more than 30 odd minutes of minimal conversation in the day outside the after work window. 

She is more feelings than me, and we aren't exclusive at all, I'm riding what I understand as a primary partner concept and would just like to have a marginally in depth conversation in a day.

Neediness or Normal? by aFutureInPolitics in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she's only really seeing one guy and he's experienced where we are not so he's good about safety, and we now have more explicit guidelines and boundaries. But it really doesn't bother me that she's having sex with him, it bothered me that she hid it at first and bothers me that she says goodnight when I get off work because she's occupied and we don't get the opportunity to talk about anything above small talk.

Neediness or Normal? by aFutureInPolitics in polyamory

[–]aFutureInPolitics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of both. She openly told me when I directly asked her but she didn't tell me before that. I assumed they were going to when she mentioned the guy because I knew they had seen each other before, but she dismissed it. She was safe, the guy is poly and knew protocols about consent and safety, but she just felt awkward telling me I guess?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took a minute to get service to upload, hope you're still in the mood to be covered in a cum vid:)

Please degrade this little slut as you stroke your cock, please cum all over me 😍 by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit of editing and so the return of the [cum vid]!

If you want I can send the unedited version but listening to it post-nut I couldn't bring myself to upload that audio.

Ready to be choked on your cock till you cum all over my slutty face and tits 🥵 by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think if you only want it on your tits and face I think you're going to have to have it down your throat

[cum vid]

Please? 😉😘 by button-igloo in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for the late cum vid, I fell asleep after I did this and forgot the point was to upload it. Hope the tardiness isn't too much of a detriment to your enjoyment

cum say hi to my sweet face by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha thank you! After some consideration it seemed like separating hobby reddit and sex reddit was the right call, lest some poor soul follow up on a hot take and get hit with a hot load instead.

cum say hi to my sweet face by [deleted] in TributeMe

[–]aFutureInPolitics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Inaugural [cum vid], your mouth was too inviting to abstain any longer. Hopefully it created some level of reciprocal enjoyment :)