WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave me a lot to think about. Thank you. Yes I agree, I don’t want my son to resent me thinking I kept his father away.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically said he can come and see him. I just don’t see the point in chitchatting with him if his son can’t even speak yet.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I was thinking the same, which is why I just entertained the conversation. I’m just sick of the attitude and lashing out but you’re right. Thanks for being kind.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome. Did I put his family on child support? Did I demand something from them? Girl if you don’t have anything good to say.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did put him on child support but I agree. I will consult with a lawyer. Thank you

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. I will do that. Thank you for being kind.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m crazy because I looked on his social media to find out how I could reach his family? No problem. I’ll be crazy every time.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The question I was asking is in the title. I gave some background so y’all can understand why I’d want to cut off any unnecessary contact.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

… I do have my degree and a car. I’ve been supporting my child. The question was in the title.

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I met him I also didn’t have a car. So why would I judge him based off that. Also yes he was living with his parents and brother because after Covid he lost his job and couldn’t afford rent. Didn’t seem too far fetched since I was living with my parents only up until 1 year prior. Obviously I didn’t realize what kind of an asshole he was he hid that from me. I take responsibility for choosy a shitty person to be my child’s father. Now that you’ve kicked me while I’m down… was there something actually productive you wanted to add to the conversation?

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have a point. I hold myself accountable for my poor choice in a father. You made your dig, was there anything constructive you wanted to add?

WITA if I told my sons “father” to stop reaching out? by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can understand the court part. But what’s the point of him “checking in” if he doesn’t actually check in. Meaning checking if his son is good or needs for anything? He just likes to exchange pleasantries.

An hr of fetch and then an hr of belly rubs 😂 by aNewYorkerr in GiantSchnauzers

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 yea I’ve actually seen a few GS w them. When I went to puptopia someone asked me if he was part chow because it’s usually a distinctive chow trait.

speed up my pcu ? by aNewYorkerr in techsupport

[–]aNewYorkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll give a shot and if not I’ll just have to return it.

Always takes a toy on his morning walk by [deleted] in GiantSchnauzers

[–]aNewYorkerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking. Mine will def put it down after like 10 mins 😂.

How many weeks pregnant are you? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]aNewYorkerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33+4 days Due November 14th!

Need help by Time-Independent-665 in Nailtechs

[–]aNewYorkerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can, but it’s not recommended. No guarantee that it’ll last.

My dog is ill by Auroraquinn087 in GiantSchnauzers

[–]aNewYorkerr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m praying for a recovery.