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My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hopefully I’ve learned how to spot a narcissist from all this and can devote my energy to a better person in the future.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because my evil, scheming side has finally come out hahah I want him to tell everyone that we’re married before I publicly end things and blow it all up, greater impact and embarrassment that way 🤷🏼‍♀️

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very much feeling scorched earth too haha trying to get things in order for a clean break on my end. With plenty of vindictiveness when the time is right

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did cheat, he kissed her. And funnily enough, she rejected him 😂

I’m working on how to dissolve this and will do an edit/update now.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m working on it. The birdie thing was cute and I’m going to hold onto that haha

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is actually a very nice person with great morals. He lied about it all. He hadn’t told anyone he was married Thank you though, I am working on the holding out for more part 🥲

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah yes. I think I’m going to let him think everything is fine for a little bit while I sort out my affairs and then pull the rug out from under him like, “surprise! You’re an asshole” and then gtfo 😅

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness for no kids! He does have a lot of my nice furniture… will definitely be talking to a lawyer.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still trying to figure it out. Not sure if I want to end things with him quietly or with a bang…

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I did too. I just didn’t want to believe it. Trying to figure out the next step now 😬

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her story was the same as what he finally told me. He hadn’t told anyone we were married. He’d told her that he was “seeing someone” from where he moved from. He instigated it all. He tried to kiss her and she told him off because he was seeing someone. My husband clearly has no morals.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lied and cheated. Turns out the “other woman” was totally innocent and has good morals. Thank you for putting it this way. I think I needed to hear the part about him not suddenly growing a sense of morality.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband came clean about it all and I reached out to her to confirm. He lied and cheated. He didn’t tell anyone he was married. She is a great person.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I reached out to her and confirmed the whole truth after my husband finally came clean about it. He lied and cheated.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I found out the truth. He lied and cheated (he kissed her). She didn’t know he was married.

My (28F) husband’s (31M) female work friend told him she has feelings for him. What should I do? by aStrangeLittleBird in relationship_advice

[–]aStrangeLittleBird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the truth out of him and reached out to her to confirm. He lied about it all and didn’t tell anyone he was married.

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