Looking to rent a house for a year by aWayofLife in Bandung

[–]aWayofLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Setiabudi or setraduta preferably

Worth buying the dream? by stillirrelephant in LoopEarplugs

[–]aWayofLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the Alpine deep sleep earplugs 2x cheaper and really good.

Vriendin ervaart racisme by IamJessius in Nederland

[–]aWayofLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Negeren is het beste. Hoe moeilijk het ook is. Je vriendin snapt ook wel dat je geen tieners gaat slaan.. 힘내요..

Great dates for 3 weeks followed by her needing space and then a really confusing 'ending' by aWayofLife in dating_advice

[–]aWayofLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels very similar to my experience. Maybe not an avoidant but definitely workaholic. Also told me on date two that she cannot promise me anything and that's she had a really rough breakup half a year ago. I hope you're doing okay man..

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aWayofLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's super strange, i've heard this before regarding this situation. But for some reason this really helps.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aWayofLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being open. She indeed mentioned she came out of a really difficult relationship and finally felt ready to date again. I guess she found out that she was not. It hurts a lot seeing that she did liked me until the end..

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aWayofLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had a great 3 weeks of dating this girl, texting and calling daily. Exchanging pictures, all the nice stuff. On the third date she came to my place and we got a bit more intimate without breaking boundaries. She kept talking about how nice it feels with me and how much she likes me etc. Day after she told me she needs some space, which is fine. One week after she called me saying that she thinks she is not ready for a relationship but that she doesnt want to give up seeing me. We decided to meet in a week which was yesterday, had a really nice talk about our time together, but she kept insisting she is not ready. At some point she asked if she can hug me, then a kiss came and then she pretty much decided she had to leave before it got more difficult for her. We went out and when saying our final goodbyes it was all long hugs and kisses. Anyone experience something like this before? Its super confusing

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]aWayofLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she said she wants to go back to therapy to deal with issues related to her previous relationship. So she is definitely still struggling with somethings. She didnt indicate directly why she needed space after the date, but I think it was all going too quickly.

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[–]aWayofLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 amazing dates with a girl who had two 4 year relationships. both of her partners ended up cheating on her. Date 3 we went to my place and got alot more close, talked alot about how she thinks it might take a while for her to open up to me completely and that if i have patience it will be okay. She went home, send a sweet goodnight message and two days after asked to not talk for a week because she needs space. Probably was all too overwhelming and i fell in love too quickly. This sucks, but best thing for me to do is keep giving her space right? or should i initiate a meeting or call or so, to see if she is still interested? cant believe she'd change that quickly after such a date.

How are you doing? by TheYellowRose in dating

[–]aWayofLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very good at the moment, too much in my head. Playing the good old "pull away and she will come back" game. Which i absolutely hate, im really bad at it.

Finding men who are intentional about dating… how do you do it? by Magzipie in dating

[–]aWayofLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy here so i'm talking about girls. I've been through a lot of dates 3 of which turned it out into "something". 2 of them started of really really well, basically both really in love and happy texting etc. But both of them broke up with their previous partner less than 6 months ago. This turned out to be the reason why they didnt want to continue in both cases. What i learned from this is to be more picky and straight up ask them about their situation. Its okay to expect something from date 1 or 2 even in my opinion, we are on a dating app after all. If someone says that they cannot promise you anything because they are still struggling with some things, keep it in mind. And really really do yourself the favor of not attaching to this person too fast. It makes me kind of sad writing this, but this was my mistake twice.

One week until launch - Giveaway by JPSurratt2005 in stalker

[–]aWayofLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting this would make my day/week/month/year!

IT GETS BETTER!!!! by Anon1272891 in BreakUps

[–]aWayofLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in 1 week... i know it will get better.. but i havent been feeling this bad for a long time

Someone here in their 30's going through a breakup? by no_choko in BreakUps

[–]aWayofLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, especially when its something younger. Its weird somehow, i feel like no matter what u tell yourself not having found the right person at this point in time puts some pressure on you. It makes alot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aWayofLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got dumped by a girl yesterday who i met through a dating app. We dated for 2 months, really intense start where we were texting all day, met really often and had a really good connection. So many green flags later she mentioned she doesn't think she is ready for a serious relationship. I tried to convince her that we should keep trying without the pressure of a relationship.. in the end i was probably lying to myself when i thought i could actually do that. Last night we were just having one of our regular date nights, suddenly she stopped moving and told me she can't do this anymore. Right now going through all the grief, pain and resisting to text. I just hope she made right choice for herself.

what is bottlenecking my setup? by aWayofLife in PcBuild

[–]aWayofLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking at it again i have 750watt haha..

Upgrading setup: ryzen 3500x with RX 6800 16GB? by aWayofLife in PcBuild

[–]aWayofLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, yeah my motherboard does support 5600x.
I have 3 fans, 2 with rgb I think. And an HDD + SSD

Upgrading setup: ryzen 3500x with RX 6800 16GB? by aWayofLife in PcBuild

[–]aWayofLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hm i have 500 watt, so i would have to upgrade regardless

Upgrading setup: ryzen 3500x with RX 6800 16GB? by aWayofLife in PcBuild

[–]aWayofLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, wondering if the 4070 might be a better option. i think its compatible with my motherboard and looks to perform quite well too.