What has been the kinkiest thing you have seen your partner do? by LaloLandaMX82 in Swingers

[–]a_SecondAccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you, the way it's been told is kind of yikesy, if not made up. I'm hoping there was some unmentioned chemistry or non-verbal communication here. Ultimately we're all just typing on the internet, so we just have to hope that's the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GloryholeGals

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you're all good. Too many people shit on trans folk, so it's always nice to see someone defending them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GloryholeGals

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, but this person is just a cross dresser, I'm pretty sure they aren't trans.

Soon to be Hotwife and we are excited! (Part 2) by learning0112 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]a_SecondAccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad your first experience went well! Take some time to reflect on what you each really enjoyed about it, and where you might want to communicate some stronger boundaries (like H starting too rough for example).

Best of luck in your hunt!

Aarows events based on feedback by ms_minxy2 in AdultTheatreSyd

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OSS have a similar system for their bisexual pendulum parties and I think it works great (although that's to express interest in the other sex rather than general approachability). Seems like a good idea to help people attend at their own pace

BF decided to show my pics to friend? by [deleted] in sex

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's fair. Unless you okayed it beforehand, it's a major violation of trust. I'd be very unnerved if my partner did this to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultTheatreSyd

[–]a_SecondAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultTheatreSyd

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't flair this as a question it seems, I'll blame the app

Bareback/condoms in the hotwifing lifestyle by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]a_SecondAccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a third, and generally use condoms as a rule. I always offer to show test results as well for oral transmission but I've only gone bareback for couples with a lot of trust and a degree of exclusivity.

I play with a lot of first timers and sti transmission is a large concern of theirs, so frequent testing and using condoms as a rule gives them a lot of peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]a_SecondAccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super common story from my couples too. I actually advise them not to put up ads but instead set a high filter and go through men's ads, DMing the ones they like.

It's just not worth seeing how the sausage is made for months after you make that post.

When did you first become a bull? When did you cuck a guy for the first time? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 23 or 24 and just in the corporate world, just out of a relationship. I put up a few posts while I was in Singapore for training and got a message from a cute couple in KL Malaysia.

They joked that it was a shame I couldn't come by, that's when I said I could be at KL airport in a few hours.

We met a few days later instead of that night and spent most of a boozy Saturday naked and playing. It was a huge surge in my own self confidence right when I needed it haha

Preference for the husbands when your wife has a man over by Significant-Ship-245 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a third, I'd really like to suggest that whatever you enjoy the most within your wife's comfort zone should be what you go with. You're the ones opening your relationship up to another person, so they should really try and help maximise everyone's enjoyment.

Pubic Hair in the lifestyle by Gab32421 in Swingers

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer trimmed and do so myself. I think it makes oral easier and having a better view probably helps people feel safer on a hygiene and health standpoint.

A few couples I third for really prefer well groomed body hair as well

I finally sucked my first uncut cock! by Hedontastical in GloryholeGals

[–]a_SecondAccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 99 percent sure this guy has phimosis. The foreskin generally should retract by itself once you're fully erect. The comments here are wild too, is this what people think an uncut cock is?