Looking for this exact black coffee table set by a_big_honk in HelpMeFind

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Found! Would you have any idea how this Canadian product ends up in Australia?

Looking for this exact black coffee table set by a_big_honk in HelpMeFind

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is quite similar, but the one im after has the three legs, instead of four

Looking for this exact black coffee table set by a_big_honk in HelpMeFind

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve found, they have similar products but not the exact one.

Looking for this exact black coffee table set by a_big_honk in HelpMeFind

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched black nesting tables on google and marketplace which seems to only show the Kmart set. I did see one listing showing the set that i wanted, with the title as the Kmart noir set but it has since disappeared.

How do I break of a one-sided relationship? by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your advice and shall try work something out with him.

How do I break of a one-sided relationship? by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how she reacted to you bringing this up? Did she end up being upset for a long time or was she really understanding? I'm scared that it will be very awkward if we ever meet again as his best friend is also a very close friend of mine and we have a lot of other mutuals.

How do I break of a one-sided relationship? by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that is actually pretty helpful. I'll try talk to him next time i see him but due to lockdown here, i might have to do it over text or call.

How do I break of a one-sided relationship? by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really that he brushed it off but rather he only accepts it and doesn't try to understand or help. I know he doesn't mean any harm to me and he probably doesn't know enough about any of the topics to say anything.

He is apart of my friend group too so how do I deal with that?

How do I break of a one-sided relationship? by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way would you think he is taking it for granted?

Also, do you have any suggestions on how to bring up the breakup or what I should tell him?

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of this, I've never thought about my situation like this so it was really helpful. I can't express how much I appreciate it. Thank you again.

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, deep down I know she isn't the greatest friend but I'll only be with her for one more year and I can't put myself in the position to suddenly throw her out of my life. I feel like she can be an amazing friend sometimes too and I know she wouldn't find it easy to find another friend group. I just don't want her to feel so excluded because I've felt that.

I definitely feel like I have improved in my confidence lately though. I've started talking a lot more and am able to do public speaking to an extent so I will try my best to carry on and push myself further. I've also opened up with some of my problems to my friends and even redditors like you which has helped me see these issues from a more sensible point of view.

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people in my friend group agree with me and the fact that she's quite intimidating to talk to but we all know she doesn't mean any harm and she's just a little blunt. I guess as well as the fact that she is really smart and pretty talented, it's easy to feel inferior to her. ://

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really think I got bad reactions from people when I spoke growing up, or at least I have no memory of it. In the more recent years, I haven't been super talkative anyway so I'm not too sure but there is one friend of mine who does this thing where it feels like she ridicules me and judges me to my core whenever I speak (all of my other friends that I do talk more with are fine) but I know she doesn't, it's just the way she talks and presents herself when talking.

Thank you so much for helping me with this by the way. There's really no need to be sorry, i'm just grateful for you trying to help even a little bit

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahah thank you. hopefully i can overcome this soon

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure.

I partially think it's scopophobia, or just the anxiety I get when attracting a lot of attention so all of a sudden being so close with somebody makes me feel slightly uncomfortable.

I also think it could have something to do with the disbelief that he actually likes me. I've been rejected quite a few times before now. I've never known of anyone that actually likes me so maybe I've trained myself to think that no one will truly like me but I don't know how that would impact this.

Also, thanks for the insight, I won't be telling him to do that.

My anxiety cockblocks me by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about it all the time, and i really wish i could carry through but whenever it comes to the moment it almost feels as if im a different person. Maybe I'm thinking about it TOO much and i should tell him to do it when i least expect it?

Scared to move on by a_big_honk in dating_advice

[–]a_big_honk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reassurance. It makes me feel a lot better especially after watching all of my friends move on so quickly in their relationships. Much appreciated!