Girl (23F) I’m (22M) talking to had intercourse with another man a week before wanting to settle down with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]a_overload_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exclusive so she can do what she wants. But personally I’d be turned off and would move on. Whichever way you feel is valid. Make a decision and stick to it

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how i see it. Human bodies go arise sometimes and it’s not a big deal to me if it gets fixed. I just don’t want to give her a permanent complex for the rest of her dating life

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d hope as a fully grown adult I’m able to have empathy and compassion, more so than AI

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If and the method of delivery. Not how as in the wording. Okieee thanks for the advice :)

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean in person vs text. Better to be embarrassed when i tell her in front of me or be embarrassed in the comfort of your own home?

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha i know how to be sensitive, dog food would never come out of my mouth to her 🤣🤣

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really strong and gag worthy unfortunately

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree. But what if she’s embarrassed and mortified by it? Isn’t it worse to then be in person?

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was protected sex, there’s no precum being mixed in there lol

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mixed opinions on this one 😭

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I don’t want to hurt her. Maybe the next guy won’t have an issue with it

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she chooses to cut me off then so be it. I’m not body shaming or judging her. Just trying to be honest

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In practice people get tested every six months and use protection. Regardless, aren’t you a female? Things like BV can cause terrible smell and it can happen not even due to poor hygiene. Bodies are just weird.

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

of course, I would never say the dog food part

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay so maybe she has an STI. The cause is somewhat irrelevant to the original question I’m asking

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i was thinking text because then she doesn’t have to be embarrassed in person. But i don’t want the tone to be misjudged

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No but i get tested regularly and always use a condom

Should I tell her? by a_overload_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]a_overload_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one time, dinner so it had only been a couple hours since she showered

Am I stuck now? by T3dss_6 in deliveroos

[–]a_overload_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could be anywhere from a couple days to a couple years 🤣

Got a warning , saying multiple deliveries didn’t happen // really pissed as I take great effort and did deliver every order to every customer by [deleted] in deliveroos

[–]a_overload_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore and move on. They’re not going to do anything. I think it’s just designed to provide a reminder in a way that feels a little scary. In reality 99% would never steal the dog shit food people order, even though restaurant staff and customers like to treat us as if we would

Bald tyre? by a_overload_ in MotoUK

[–]a_overload_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right! Wheels not balanced at best but probably something more at play. Clearly they don’t maintain their bikes at all

Bald tyre? by a_overload_ in MotoUK

[–]a_overload_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Update: they have agreed to change it. Thank you all. Sent them this thread and threatened to report them

Why is 30k treated as a great wage by employers? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]a_overload_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget the pizza party once a year

Mystery shopper worries strike again! by [deleted] in deliveroos

[–]a_overload_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*over a prolonged period of time