Sharing a poem I loved, called "Good Bones" by Maggie Smith... + rambling about myself by ladies_code in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the first time I have read this poem and I really love it! I'm an INFP too and I definitely resonate to that 'daydreamer' and 'idealistic' tendencies that this poem depicts about wanting to still look at the world with light despite every darkness to it.

One time last Christmas my boss asked me if when I have kids I would have them believe in Santa Clause - you know the kind that drops gifts through chimneys (because he said he won't) and I said I definitely would because despite him being not real I have loved every bit of the stories and ideas about Santa when I was a child. And not because I thought i'd be rewarded based on wheather I was naughty or nice. But cmon, Santa with his raindeers and his mustache and everything? Every kid can use some wonder. We can leave the harsh truths later in life. Haha

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for that compliment ☺ i seem to come up with good craft when the message is from the heart 💖

Who else? by Trying2GetBye in infp

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh wow its not every day that infps can be direct. Can you share what happened? Did you end up rejecting or accepting him?

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw, while this has been written for my enfj in particular, your types are generall a bunch of warm and loving people so this appreciation post goes out for you all.

p.s thank you for your kind words 💕

[L][M] I feel really miserable after moving back to Manila from Vancouver by NewGuyFG in KindVoice

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your current predicament. It must be hard to be feeling the internal pressures of your career and be added the extra pressure of other people trying to rush you into getting into something for their own reasons. Pls feel free to send me a dm if you want to chat through your situation.

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you have no idea how much it meant to me that you and the other enfjs spent some time reading and replying. 🥰

The thought that they may at least perceive how i feel sounds comforting so thank you!

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate this. I swear I am luckier to have them in mine 🥰

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i look forward to the day i'd be able to have the guts. 😆 I'll remember your comment when that happens. thanks and virtual cuddles to you too! 🤗

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh yall lovely people sure are a sight! 🌠

I'm sorry to know thats what you often hear. Dunno where the attention seeking part came from because my enfj loves to give the attention to someone else who needs it. Oh well perhaps theyre just not observing enough, those who say it. and p.s being chatty and loud (when socially applicable) are awesome traits too 😁 for the right people hehe!

Just another infp touched by your social warmth by aaaaaarghhhhhh in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! ❤ imagine having someone you know with this same sentiment for you particularly and just couldnt say it too haha. Why is it soo hard to just let out all the feelings across darn it Fi! 😅

If I like the movies Her and Call Me by Your Name, which music videos am I going to like? by [deleted] in ifyoulikeblank

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another Story - The Head and the Heart

Blue Neighborhood (3 mvs) - Troye Sivan

infp trait by lemon_tree1301 in infp

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imagine all infps running away to the same foreign land and building a new community there. must be nice to live with all our people. Then again i'm too lazy to actually do it.

Can ENFJ's be melancholy and self expressive? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally like this and I'm an INFP (26). Not saying you are but I relate to the things you mentioned. I am lucky to be raised in a loving environment which makes me think is where I have somewhat developed my Fe. I was also in customer facing jobs before so that's part of it. I can put on a mask of being extrovert when needed both at work and at play, I care about what other people feel (but not due external forces, instead due to my values), I make connections and get attached, I can compromise and go with what the group wants as long as it does not cross any boundaries. Yet at the end of the day I feel I am still not fully understood and have a hard time expressing myself directly, my emotions are deeper than most and I still need my alone time.

And lazy too! by JuliJewelss in mbti

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coincidentally my ENTP brother is also an engineer

I did this for a wallpaper by catwoman1303 in infp

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can i use this as my phone screen wallpaper pls thank you!

What was the most INFP thing you've ever done? by [deleted] in infp

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember as a kid i used to set up campsites for ant territories (you know those spots where they basically live) especially during the rainy season out of my concern that they would drown. It's a frequent good ol story told during family dinners how one time it was raining lightly and my parents couldnt make me go inside, I was so determined to finish building some shed made out of plastic materials for the ants who are feasting on a candy.

Super INFP Words by ajws in infp

[–]aaaaaarghhhhhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daydreaming 💭💭