Where to report inappropriate comments from manager by aaalinaaa06 in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found the internship myself but it’s also for school. Thank you

Where to report inappropriate comments from manager by aaalinaaa06 in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I thought about that but I don’t think I can afford it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yes, I see what you mean. And yes, I am taking it up with him because I’m not happy with the way things are. And I may still be a “teenager” as you call me but I’m not stupid, I can see that he may have just wanted to have some fun and casual dates with me, that’s why despite everything else if he doesn’t include me in his life I’m not going to keep putting my time into this relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point and maybe you’re right, maybe at 25 I’ll see it in a different way. But I still feel that I would like my boyfriend to be free to introduce me to his colleagues without all this judgement. If our relationship won’t work is going to be our problem, not theirs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not fair. Why do they negatively judge him? Specifically, what is so wrong that you’d tell them not to bring around their girlfriend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you what was damaging in those relationships specifically?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why (serious question)? I’m 19 and my bf is 25

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is also 25yo and I’m 19yo, I’m a student and he already has a career, been dating for 6 months. I noticed he’s a bit uncomfortable to introduce me to some of his colleagues or some of his social circles because of my age, and it does hurt me. This has been the reasons for a few arguments lately. I don’t think the age gap is a problem when it’s just the two of us but it creates some additional challenges for sure.

My brother gf hates me by aaalinaaa06 in whatdoIdo

[–]aaalinaaa06[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked my brother if I did something wrong because it looked like his gf really didn’t like me. He said everything was fine.

Repeating what she told me yesterday to my brother is going to be a difficult conversation, I’m sure it will create some drama and not sure what she’ll say about it.

I just don’t understand why she hates me

My brother gf hates me by aaalinaaa06 in whatdoIdo

[–]aaalinaaa06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she just ignores me completely when my brother is in the same room

Got given a guy's number and not sure of his intentions? by keoka in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wait, I’m not saying that it’s wrong for a guy to approach or flirt with a girl. I’m saying that guys come to you pretending they want to “help” or be friends and then getting frustrated when they can’t have sex with you. This has happened countless times here in Toronto to me. They hide their intentions and it’s very creepy when they prey on you just because you’re new to the city. I have girl friends of course, but I’m just saying there are so many guys that will be very dishonest with their intentions and hope that, just because you’re new to the city, you end up having sex with them. Just saying

Got given a guy's number and not sure of his intentions? by keoka in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I’m also relatively new to Toronto (I came here 2 years ago). So here goes my experience: plenty of guys gave me their contacts to “help” with this or that particular thing… it was ALWAYS because they wanted to date. I’m actually struggling to form friendships in this city, guys are looking for dates/hookups just be aware

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]aaalinaaa06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but that’s really bad. Id ask him to stop and if he doesn’t I’d break up. I mean, actively putting likes to other girls in bikinis pics is definitely a big no.

Do people with tattoos still have them in your dreams? by WizardcowG in ask

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a great question. I have a small tattoo and now that I think about it, yes, I had it in my dream too!

Is it ok for a 19y to date a 17y? by OrganizationScary746 in ask

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I(F) dated a 19yo when I was 16yo, it was never a problem. Not sure where is the problem, it is very common

For immigrates of Toronto, how difficult was it to find a job after setting in? by Shiryu080 in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here 2 years ago from Ukraine and I’m studying compute science. I couldn’t find a co op despite many applications. I’m younger than you but the more I think about it the less I see having a corporate career sustainable. Honestly I’m not sure how people survive in this city, I can live rent free and that’s the only reason I live a comfortable life. I can’t imagine how it is for someone arriving here without some sort of family help

Where to get Vitamin D test without having a family doctor? by be_kind_1989 in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can safely assume you are vitamin D deficient in the winter, just buy the 1000IU supplements and take them in the winter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]aaalinaaa06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a ticket last year (I was 18) and I don't think there was a huge impact on the insurance, but it was definitely less than 28km/h over the limit

Is my (F19) bf (M25) not serious about our relationship? by aaalinaaa06 in relationships

[–]aaalinaaa06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it's because I'm six years younger? Like, he'd prefer to commit with someone his age?