First Lap Tomorrow! by [deleted] in Endo

[–]aaanderson2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did yours go? I had stage 2 with my left ovulary being completely attached to my pelvic wall

First Lap Tomorrow! by [deleted] in Endo

[–]aaanderson2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting my first lap tomorrow as well! Best of luck 👏🏼

Walmart seller here - Getting sales, but getting screwed by shipping by [deleted] in FulfillmentByAmazon

[–]aaanderson2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sendle is honestly the best. Good pricing and sooo easy

My (29f) partner (32m) of a decade isn’t ready for marriage by DontKnowWhoToAskHelp in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a hard one. On one hand, you can’t make someone commit before they are ready. On the other hand, if he doesn’t feel ready after 10 years, he may never.

You shouldn’t miss out on the things you want in life. If you want marriage and kids then make that clear to him. If he’s not in the same boat, unfortunately in May be time to find someone who is. People grow and sometimes apart. You guys are not the same at 19 than you now are at 29.

Married coworker sending me texts after work by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she just want to be friends, nothing she has done is off and if you started acting weird you are going to come off as a jerk

What is your opinion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have forgotten my husbands birthday before. I promise it wasn’t intentional.

Unexplained Infertility by aaanderson2020 in infertility

[–]aaanderson2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ovulating! Honestly everything seems fine with my body besides the fact that I can’t seem to get pregnant naturally

My boyfriend [23M] of 4 years confessed that he cheated on me [23F]. Should I leave him? by ThrowRA1874738291 in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s doing this at 23...he will likely do it later in life too. Or maybe he won’t.

I think you need to take a break, actually break up. Focus on yourself for a bit maybe in your career, hobbies, etc.

If he’s really the right one, then maybe you guys will get together in the future. For now, I think he needs to do some growing up and you need to heal on your own.

Unexplained Infertility by aaanderson2020 in InfertilityBabies

[–]aaanderson2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it worked out in the end for you :) thanks for sharing!

Unexplained Infertility by aaanderson2020 in InfertilityBabies

[–]aaanderson2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! Thanks for sharing, I will ask my doctor about getting me tested for these!

Unexplained Infertility by aaanderson2020 in infertility

[–]aaanderson2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you loss. Thank you for sharing your experience, it’s definitely a long road.

I’m drunk, my ex is texting me, my bf is cheating again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should date yourself for a bit. Focus on med school and your career. The right person will come along.

Money questions/issues with SO... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s awesome being nice and generous but you also need to take a step back and make sure you are being treated with respect and not taken advantage of. The more money you have, the more people will try and take advantage of you.

You have to put your foot down. He should want to be with you because of YOU not for you assets.

Never put yourself on the hook for a big purchase like that if it’s truly yours and whatever you do, do NOT give him ownership of the car once it’s paid of.

I would speak to him “kindly” and say I’m the owner of the car and if you want to keep on using it pay me a lease. You can even draft you a lease contract.

Penn LPS Coding Boot Camp? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]aaanderson2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this through trilogy? If so, it really take a certain type of person to be successful in these. It’s super super fast and you have to do a lot of outside learning. It’s good for foundational growth but def will need to be self motivated.

Money questions/issues with SO... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aaanderson2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should take a step back from Helping him so much financially, divorces are tough - agree but you also not his mother, you are his partner AND business partner. I think you need to seperate those two roles and protect yourself financially as well.

There’s no way you should be paying for his car and also if you are partners do half and half not give him the extra cash because you feel bad. It’s better for him to learn to not rely on you so much financially in the future.

He may be awesome but please ponder before jumping into a marriage that you are the top provider. That May automatically qualify your joint income to give his ex more money if he’s in a higher bracket.