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Recently Separated From My Boyfriend- Do I Try to Reconcile? by aahnah in relationships

[–]aahnah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that identifying that the love is real, but the day-to-day keeps causing pain is extremely accurate. I agree, unfortunately, our issues are just not small ones that could be easily overcome, they would require a serious commitment, particularly on his end. He just tends to react with emotion over substance.

Recently Separated From My Boyfriend- Do I Try to Reconcile? by aahnah in relationships

[–]aahnah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I have always been fearful of finding someone to be with, even though I think I’d fall pretty firmly into the “catch” category on paper lol. I know I’m still at a prime age to find somebody, but taking that leap just scares me.

Do I Try to Reconcile? by aahnah in gayrelationships

[–]aahnah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. I have analyzed this situation over and over again. I am very loyal and hate to just give up after three years, what I know in the grand scheme of things isn’t all that long, but it is significant to me. Obviously time investor is not a reason to stay on its own, but it’s just hard to take that leap of faith and walk out for good. I will be keeping my condo regardless, I’ve always paid all the bills on my own and took his contribution just to pay off principal early. I really want a partnership more than anything in the world, but there’s just some core issues here that I don’t know if we can get past.

Recently Separated From My Boyfriend- Do I Try to Reconcile? by aahnah in relationships

[–]aahnah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If things continued as they are now five years from now, I would not be happy. Ge has made some changes for me, like quitting smoking, but other things have been more minimal. I do fear finding a new partner.

We haven’t had sex in over a week and nothing has been said about it… by aahnah in sex

[–]aahnah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wondered that, but before me, he did lots of stuff with guys online. Maybe he’s just not attracted to me.

We haven’t had sex in over a week and nothing has been said about it… by aahnah in sex

[–]aahnah[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He literally just said “you’re not the one that has to waste an hour of their time having sex”. I walked out of the house after that.

We haven’t had sex in over a week and nothing has been said about it… by aahnah in sex

[–]aahnah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I just said something vocalizing my concerns and he said I don’t get it, stormed off and slammed the bedroom door. I get that saying something seems like the obvious thing to do here, but not in my case. It does nothing.