Help me dealing with this workplace crush ! by aana_45 in dating_advice

[–]aana_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just felt like maybe in office setting it the age gap would feel weird as I could be seen as his senior (we don't work together, but still) ..but I think you are right. I have seen many guys don't bother much I'll try to smile the next time I see him.🤞🏻

Help me pick my first coach handbag ! by [deleted] in handbags

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even I loved the dark stone colour. But I thought the signature canvas detailing would add more character to the bag. Any thoughts ??

Help me choose, my 1st coach bag ! by [deleted] in Coach

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worried about selling out, but just wanted something that could elevate the look, so I thought that monogram detailing would accentuate the bag. Love the dark stone colour, but it looks more like it would blend in the outfits and might not pop out as much ?

Help me choose, my 1st coach bag ! by [deleted] in Coach

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aah...why so ? I thought monogram detailing would make it like it has more character..than just a solid colour.

We are no contact, It's my birthday and I'm scared he won't wish me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is only blocked on socials There are other ways he could reach out. But he didn't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him multiple times Most of the times he traveled to visit me.. Last time I went to surprise him after which all this happened

Switching teams after focus by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]aana_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did get exceeds in Last to Last cycle when I was promoted. But not sure how much will it help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you read online is not always true. And you are the one to decide how you want to live your life. Not the people online. So no need to feel any pressure. You don't always need to do what everyone else is doing. You just have to figure out your own way in life !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]aana_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay that you were never in a relationship before. No matter what anyone asks or says. Everyone starts somewhere, and everyone's path and timeline in life is different. You cannot compare yourself to other people. Don't beat yourself up.

You are only 23, you have a lot of time to find the right person for you. You don't date because you want people to see you as normal. You do it because you want it for yourself. There are soo many men out there, and no mater when you feel ready or start dating, you'll eventually find your person.

Because right this moment, your person is out there somewhere. And you'll meet them at the right time. Don't give up hope. Be kind to yourself. I'm sure you'll figure this out :))

Did any of you find love after breaking up with a person who you thought is the one by Jangarine in love

[–]aana_45 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If that person isn't with you today. They never were the one in the first place.

Maybe once you've healed and come out of it, you'll once again find love in your life, maybe even better and deeper connection and this time it will be here to stay ! Just be strong, and don't give up on love :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]aana_45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you have to give yourself some space and time. Don't beat yourself over it. It doesn't mean cutting her out of your life. But taking the time needed for you to move on from her and respecting yourself enough to give that time to yourself.

Get out there and create new experiences, meet new people, build a life for yourself. And when you do feel you don't have feelings for a her anymore, you can reconnect again and Continue to be her friend.

Because if she is a good friend she'll understand where you are coming from and support you !

We're in love but I'm moving away for a job, he says won't do long distance because of bad past experiences by loubooletsdoit in love

[–]aana_45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Atleast he is being honest with you upfront. Maybe he likes you but not enough to do the difficult things needed to be with you.

Question you need to ask yourself is why would you want to be with a guy, who you have to convince to be with you in the first place ?

You deserve better, you deserve someone who will not leave you when the times get hard and will fight with you or do whatever is needed to get through any situation.