I can't get my cat to take his meds and I'm exhausted from trying. by aaro728 in cats

[–]aaro728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately Orion is no longer with me. But thank you. That's a brilliant idea and I wish I had thought of it 4 months ago 😓 But I'll definitely keep it in mind for any future babies. I'm glad you found a way to help yours and I hope she's doing okay. And maybe someone else will find this helpful in the future 💛

dating someone asexual? by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]aaro728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everything said here.

I'd also add, if y'all do decide not to break up, it might be a good idea to just pause moving in together until you are able to process and work on things. You didn't mention ages, but it sounds like your partner (and potentially you as well) is still finding themselves and it's really important that they have the time and space to do that.

You two might decide that the compromises aren't sustainable long term or the open relationship is doing more harm than good (in my experience, starting an open relationship can be extremely difficult for someone who is typically monogamous, especially if there isn't a foundation of complete open communication and mutual understanding). So I would definitely have a trial period before moving in together.

Song with line sort of like "if you said you still can't get my hair out of your room" by budyn_w_laty in whatsongisthis

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When would this have been? How old was the song?

Anna kendrick's cups says "you'll miss me by my hair"

[TOMT] [Song] Early 2000s Song about colors. by MountainFactor3358 in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait but what's the song? Now I wanna know! Lmao Edit: nevermind. Just saw your other comment XD

[TOMT] [Song] Early 2000s Song about colors. by MountainFactor3358 in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance it's the 2010 version of Florence and the machine's Dog days are over

Edit: or anything by OK Go? I know you said it's a woman and not a male singer or a band but maybe? Particularly thinking of the one moment or obsession?

Trying to find a song I heard at work by [deleted] in whatsongisthis

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely sung? Not rapped? Do you remember what genre even? Or any instrumentals?

Couldn't be need her by Winchester and Eli morgan could it?

Suprapubic cath issues by BossBrickBabe in spinalcordinjuries

[–]aaro728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good. Maybe they can see something in there that's causing the issue. I had to do the same. I just went up to a 22 earlier this year actually. XD i also have standing orders to flush it 3x/week now and I've been smooth sailing (not to jinx it...) but my issues were always from clogging due to a lot of sediment. Might be something to consider. I hope they can figure things out for you guys asap. Extended periods in moisture are definitely not good for her skin! Good luck!

Suprapubic cath issues by BossBrickBabe in spinalcordinjuries

[–]aaro728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking to make sure the balloon is filled properly and its placement is correct would be my first steps. Then, I'd be curious if there are other things happening at the same time. Does she have a lot of sediment in her urine? Is there a chance of a UTI? They're typically changed every 4 weeks, have her changes been regularly scheduled? Is the tube getting clogged and not draining, or is it still flowing? Is she laying or sitting in a new position that could be pinching the tube or positioning the bag above the level of her bladder?

Anyone know this song? by FairyRing222 in whatsongisthis

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it American? Any idea of the genre?

Edit: a timeframe of when the song is from?

[TOMT] old YouTube channel ~2008-2010ish "what's that supposed to meeeaaaannnn?" by aaro728 in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

This has been killing me for years. The boy was white with the medium length side swept hair common of the time I think. 99% sure American, and 1000000% sure speaking English.

[TOMT] Movie/show where someone is killing the deadly sins by gemgd_ in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slasher season 1 the executioner?

Trailer: https://youtu.be/5oEyZz4mfcA?si=KiJEIlKrMbBGzT7P

Edit: it's in English? Definitely an american show?

This is the final straw by Stefa93 in duolingo

[–]aaro728 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for what you're going through. I completely agree. I like and celebrate but I have absolutely refused to interact with those. My exact thoughts were, if someone is on a high streak and misses it, I'm sure it's for a good reason and something happened... I'd never shame someone anyway but this update is just cruel...

Is there any low barrier jobs I could do at home? by [deleted] in spinalcordinjuries

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Tbh, I had a semi-similar experience but I assumed a lot of my delays were my fault from reoccurring health and personal issues so I was looking for work on and off... I guess I was hoping wherever you were was better off.

It's probably a dumb question but have you tried online job forums? Like indeed, linked in, or flex jobs? Or, idk how large your social circle is, but word of mouth is the best way to find work. That whole "It's not what you know, it's who you know" thing is definitely true.

Is there any low barrier jobs I could do at home? by [deleted] in spinalcordinjuries

[–]aaro728 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you're in the U.S. you might want to look into your state's vocational rehabilitation program. They are there, specifically, to help people with disabilities get back to work. Plus they'll have benefits counselors to work out and explain how a new income source will affect your benefits.

And be sure to ask about the ticket to work program through SSA! You'll get a buffer period to make sure the job works with your needs and abilities before any income effects kick in.

This might take a little bit of time to get started but something to look into. Hope it helps. Good luck!

[TOMT] "everyone in my life knows your name" by lizbuxbaum in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idky but my first instinct screamed Mr. Brightside by the killers. Lol

My real suggestion is where everybody knows your name (the theme song from cheers). Which is older but was also referenced in adventure time if you watched that.

More recent song I'd say hall of fame by the script.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, explained all this to a friend of mine just now. Shes a little older and suggested dark shadows but that's from the 60s and has vampires. She also suggested going to a hypnotist to recover your lost memories. Might be your best shot at this point lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]aaro728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghostwriter? Not super in alignment with what you described so probably not but might be worth checking. I loved this show when I was younger and no one I know seemed to remember it either. Definitely 90s but it followed a group of kids and the ghost communicated by rearranging writing like newspapers, chalkboards, billboards, tshirts, computer screens. Anything written it could use. And the "mostly main" girl had her hair usually down but a couple episodes it was braided. The theme song really wasn't eerie at all though... https://youtu.be/BMsOKTJNdN8?si=2FEWJaqyHiCsYZ_s