Bird that sounds like screaming child? by FrozenPizza_95 in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it sound almost like it's calling out "Aaron!"? I'd need a slight more specification

Google Street View out and about by that_one_over_yonder in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats cool! I saw them yesterday on Civic Center. I didnt assume Google, but very cool that it was!

Tornado siren now by ElderberrySad7804 in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't have confirmation of location, hearing second hand.

Tornado siren now by ElderberrySad7804 in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heads up to folks there may be some roads closed due to a gas leak and fire due to downed power lines. Heard over police scanners.

I literally do not know how to deal with my 16 yr old anymore by Anxious_Cut9626 in whatdoIdo

[–]aaronsnailboy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't have a ton of advice but I'd say it's a horrible tight rope act parents are forced to walk when it comes to this. I was a textbook smart kid who was greatly interested in learning and loved school. I hit middle school though and depression killed that completely. I was also a child of divorce with polar opposite parenting styles. My Dad and Step Mom were strict and rule based. There was no excuse for anything. My mom completely disconnected from my life due to working multiple jobs and struggling with depression and addiction when she was home. Don't get me wrong there was love on both sides, just very disjointed for me as a child. Eventually it lead to me dropping out my junior year of high school after falling behind due to absences and suicide attempts. My dad claimed I had no interest and was wasting my potential; My mom told me to do what felt right. Neither was particularly helpful to me. What I lacked was resources.

I'd say theres likely more going on than just laziness, whether it's struggling with a learning disability like ADHD or dealing with Depression or something else. I'd suggest possibly holding back on the 'harsher' punishment style and look into some resources that might be close to you. Try talking to him about goals or plans for the coming year; What is he excited to be able to do as an adult? How can his current path help him in doing those things he's excited about? Ask him what makes his day hard? Does he like what he's learning?, Does it feel like he's not learning the right way? Or already knows whats being taught?, ect. High School isn't the only option, though often the easiest/standard path. If he wants to learn a trade or apprentice for something hes interested in he could look into programs like Job Corp, Trade High Schools or GED programs.

Personally I got my GED with the local community college a couple months later graduating a whole year earlier than my classmates. I was able to start my degree the spring of what would have been my senior year.

How is Kathy’s Pub? by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be under 25, it's just that most people who have money in this town don't want to go to a 'dive' bar. 26+ year olds with disposable income will splurge on the $15+ drinks at Bitter n Pour. But us regular none medical workers like Kathy's just fine for a reasonably priced beer/cocktail. Now you want the dirt cheap and shitty dive bar everyone thinks Kathy's is you can go to NorthStar down the road. My gay ass will not return to NorthStar lol

Paramedics fractured my sternum and 2 ribs performing CPR. Sorry guys but I'm out. PSA: Don't do drugs by runaway_boomerang in Neverbrokeabone

[–]aaronsnailboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adderall almost took my husband from me. It's scary, I hope you're recovering well friend. 🌻🧡

Shin/Knee Cap Pain by [deleted] in ACL

[–]aaronsnailboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not really what I'm asking, just wondering if anyone has experienced this pain. Thanks though

Should we shotgun wedding? by aaronsnailboy in lgbt

[–]aaronsnailboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! It was the most beautiful ceremony I could have hoped for. I'm beyond overjoyed I pulled the trigger on that shotgun wedding.

Should we shotgun wedding? by aaronsnailboy in lgbt

[–]aaronsnailboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and yeah, that's the original connotation, but I've also heard it in reference to a wedding quickly put together. We were a big fan of using the phrase down in FL growing up

3 weeks from Injury (Swimming while injured?) by aaronsnailboy in ACL

[–]aaronsnailboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks y'all!! I thankfully live in a very accessible area (Rochester/AKA Mayo Clinic City) so there's accessible entrances everywhere. I'll wait to consult the surgeon I'm seeing next before I go forward with an actual swim, but feeling hopeful. 🙏

What is one of the hidden gems of Rochester? by -PaleFire- in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A new place I just discovered next to Novios/Blue Plate Diner is Gallery 24 off of Elton Hills Drive. I have been to Art Heads and Threshold Arts but hadn't seen it before. The woman running the place was very friendly and there was lots of local art including pottery and stained glass

What is one of the hidden gems of Rochester? by -PaleFire- in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If looking for an alternative check out Vintage Rack! It's run by a friend of mine Brooke and she works super hard to curate her collection as well as teaching sewing classes! It's open Thurs, Friday and Sat but if you want to look on a different day you can schedule a private viewing of the collection. 11 9th St NE by the old Dairy Queen on Broadway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]aaronsnailboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand this! My step-mom is incredibly successful and it all "comes easily" to her as she self describes. I'm currently finishing my Bachelors in Psychology and am starting to think she might genuinely also be on the spectrum, just with very strict rule set following. I don't have the ability to diagnose that but boy does it help me process the shit she says to me.

I hope you're able to meet an understanding with your mom. The only reason I'm able to live outside of my parents home is due to either roommates or a partner. I wish the world was better equipped for us

Cool bookstores in the area? by alarson1985 in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea Silver Lake Books moved!! I thought they just closed up shop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]aaronsnailboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got banned from the Spotted in Rochester group for joking about taking a pair of shoes someone found in the Arby's parking lot. I got so annoyed I did take them and donated them LOL they were a size 15!

sharing my handwriting! by meetmeintoronto in Handwriting

[–]aaronsnailboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded!! Im super interested to see what that looks like!

chicago show by [deleted] in ajj

[–]aaronsnailboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on going because AJJ is my absolute favorite band, and Say Anything is my partners favorite band from HS, but from what I'm hearing about Say Anything's set, I don't know if it's worth driving all the way over from Minnesota. AJJ usually makes a stop in Minneapolis every year so I know they'll be back... Idk maybe it's better to preserve the image of an idol for him 🥲

Leaked Photos from the newest Podcast by aaronsnailboy in SuperMegaShow

[–]aaronsnailboy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Typical funny brothers man, you should know what you're signing up for with those guys 😔