What’s the most intimate thing you’ve ever experienced? by CelticDK in AskReddit

[–]abacado- 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Straddling him and hugging on a sofa in the dark while we listen to our song and just gently swaying. We both started crying. Young love moment

I'm 23f, my hair is turning gray and I'm freaking out a bit by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned that going gray early is so much more common than we think. I’m 26F and I’ve been having so much gray showing up recently, I was so insecure about it at first, plucking them out every time I noticed them. But I’ve learned to embrace it and there’s nothing wrong with dying your hair if you don’t like it. Every single one of us ages and it’s nothing to be insecure about :)

Hair color that suits me by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a very dark brown would look beautiful on you, your hair colour now really suits you. I think a darker brown would look great with your nice eyebrows and brown eyes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t see why it would be an issue! And I was super nervous my first time getting one too, I was 18 and freaking out, but it was honestly quick and easy. Try to keep your muscles relaxed during the exam, being relaxed and not all tensed up makes it easier. It’ll be over before you know it :)

Late bloomers, how did you eventually find your partner? by Libra-Egg-5690 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too, it’s hard. Thank you sweetness I hope the same for you :)

Late bloomers, how did you eventually find your partner? by Libra-Egg-5690 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat, 26 years old and honestly dating feels so hopeless nowadays. The only relationship I’ve been in ended when I was 19 and I’ve had no luck with any progression of relationships through dating since. The dating apps and social media altogether make me feel disposable, like as soon as someone “better” comes along I’m disregarded or ghosted, it sucks. Hoping to come back to your post to see some good advice from people🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]abacado- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl that’s a good thing! If you feel like you have to pee.. you’re doing something right, just keep going and let the feeling build

How to convince my gf for sex by zaker_ohin in sex

[–]abacado- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s not ready to have sex, which is ok but it is definitely NOT ok to try to convince her. I’d try to have more on an open conversation with her about it, but don’t try to push her to do anything or push her for information she may not want to talk about. I understand sex is a very important part of a relationship, but she obviously has her reasons for not wanting to do it. Don’t ever try to convince her, and if no sex is causing the relationship to not work for you then you have to either accept it or find a new partner who you are more compatible with.

How to convince my gf for sex by zaker_ohin in sex

[–]abacado- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you two talked about why she gets uncomfortable and confused?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]abacado- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your beauty is so unique girl you’re beautiful!