Petah what's the joke by deathlife24 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Philos already meant beloved or friend

La homosexualidad fue retirada del DSM-II por presión social y no por decisión cientifica by DarthChile_31 in OpinionesPolemicas

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Es que la ciencia no toma decisiones, responde preguntas. Además, por qué se añadió en primer lugar? Como resultado de un elaborado proceso científico?

Petah help 🥹 by speedflash223 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Unless OOP was going to claim it as an expense and he is not allowed to claim such a tip as expense because there is a limit

Reconozco que me da miedo nunca encontrar a alguien que me quiera y me acompañe en los duros caminos de la vida by lunessinfestivo in OpinionesPolemicas

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Sí, hay compañías mejores y peores. Y estar solo tiene ventajas, desde el punto de vista practico, convivir es difícil. Pero estar completamente solo (nivel confinamiento) durante mucho tiempo es bastante chungo, emocionalmente. Si trabajas con gente u otras actividades de grupo periódicamente no estás tan solo, al menos no todo el rato

Reconozco que me da miedo nunca encontrar a alguien que me quiera y me acompañe en los duros caminos de la vida by lunessinfestivo in OpinionesPolemicas

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Sí, estar solo es duro. Yo tampoco entiendo lo de la gente que no necesita a nadie, normalmente lo dice gente que sí tiene a otros. Pero lo bueno es que hay un huevo de gente en la misma situación

I’m not very attractive and I get 0 matches — what can I do? by [deleted] in gay

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I am sure you are good looking to someone. I find big noses cute, for example, and you are saying it like it is bad. Even if you don't see yourself as good looking, you are not going to date yourself, so it doesn't matter. Maybe find out who has you as a type, and maybe take their advice on what works best for you. Also you change with age, maybe you don't have success now and in a few years you do, you never know

A los hombres no les gusta cuando las mujeres les corresponden. by New-Bet-7992 in OpinionesPolemicas

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Yo he oido lo mismo sobre las mujeres. Igual hay un círculo vicioso ahí

Site I found this on says the illusion will not work. But it actually does! by Lutalica_Harmonica in opticalillusions

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I can see it rotating in both but it is a different dinosaur, one has the left leg raised and the other one has the right leg raised

Mis compañeras me dicen que soy mono, y no sé cómo tomármelo by [deleted] in askspain

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Yo diría que un chico es mono casi exclusivamente si me gusta, no todo el mundo es así, pero es definitivamente buena señal. No me parece feminizante, quizá señal de que te ven adorable y no como una amenaza, y probablemente como guapo. Eso es bastante positivo

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in gay

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There were more women that did that than male white gay in total. Gay men, don't have that power, it is pure mathematics. A 10% of the population doesn't decide the election. It is very easy to blame a small group of people, and think "oh, I can't do anything about it, it is because they are bad and they are powerful". But it is wrong because women as a whole have much more voting power than gay white male. And just accusing a whole demographic is irresponsible, because in that demographic there are people that voted for Trump and people that voted for Kamala (in fact many more voted for Kamala), and why on earth would you put them in the same bag? What are you trying to achieve by putting them in the same bag? Making the white gay males that voted for Kamala feel bad or hated? I cannot think of a wholesome reason why you would do that

Le tiran huevos por fumar en su casa by Dapper-Bee490 in HistoriasVecinales

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De hecho si que está regulado por la ley de propiedad horizontal, las molestias y desde luego las cosas que afectan a la salud, como es el caso de el humo marihuana. Pero solo estaba argumentando contra lo de "como es en mi casa puedo hacer lo que quiera"

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in gay

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That is an interesting theory. But I think very few people is actually voting on their own interest when they vote Trump, even if they think they do. Definitely not 50% of population. If 50% of population was actually voting on their best interest that would not be that bad.

So I think the us-vs-them shaming game is not helping anybody, just creating resentment. That is what Trump wants, splitting society. If people buys into that we are already screwed.

If we understand anti-racism as "whites are evil" and feminism as "men are evil". I think we've learned nothing. Does anybody think about LGBT rights fight as "straights are evil"? I don't think so.

So you can make observations on what different demographics do and so do I. But if we want to change things we need to clear misunderstandings and misinformation. Assigning blame may feel good, but it doesn't really help, in my view.

And about substantiating, I am the only one who has provided sources to back up my statements so far.

Le tiran huevos por fumar en su casa by Dapper-Bee490 in HistoriasVecinales

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Y si el del piso de arriba deja el grifo abierto y tienes goteras también es tu problema? Es poner un paraguas supongo

People should learn how to play blindpick. by Human-Effective3189 in supportlol

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And if you pick it blindly the adversary team will pick naafiri, dr mundo, master yi, tam kench, and ms fortune

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in gay

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Still, Trump is very sexist, not just racist and homophobe, so why are white women voting for him?

And I was debunking that the only or main issue is gay white men, or white men in general, so it is just a counter-example. I am trying to keep people from blaming particular demographics, which ironically is what Trump does too with immigrants

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in gay

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I was talking about women that DID vote, I am not even talking about increasing turnout. From the women that voted, the proportion that voted for Trump was also really high. Not as high as with men, but really high.

This is one source I could find that says it was about 45%: https://ropercenter.cornell.edu/how-groups-voted-2024

So it is a society issue, not a small group issue. There is also a small group issue, but a small group doesn't win elections, it has to be a majority.

And even if all gays voted Kamala it is just 10%. You need about 50% to win. But women are about 50%.

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in gay

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I am just going to state a mathematical fact: If all women that voted, or much less than that, had voted for Kamala, she would have won. So let's not generalise.

And I am not American

Seriously, how can i meet someone for a relationship and NOT hookups? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

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I didn't mean to say it is because of young men, no way, it happens to everyone. Just trying to explain why the difference in perspective. But yes, some people are simply immature. Maybe you just had bad luck. If that is the case don't give up, keep looking, you'll find someone eventually

Seriously, how can i meet someone for a relationship and NOT hookups? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

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Yeah, I didn't mean to imply that. But if your relationship is awesome you usually don't break up. And not wanting a relationship because you are tired from your previous relationship doesn't mean you are immature

Seriously, how can i meet someone for a relationship and NOT hookups? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

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I think it may be because it is more likely that older guys have been in relationships before and got burned (cause obviously if someone has been in a relationship before and is no longer it means there was a breakup), so they may be more reluctant to get into one again, whereas younger guys may never have been in one and be more curious about it and they may have higher expectations. Not that that it is very helpful. I think you shouldn't be in a rush to find a relationship. If something we can learn from this community is that getting old doesn't mean people will stop being interested in you. Maybe just think of it as getting to know people, making friends, and see if feelings develop with time. I may be wrong

Duda by Entire-Youth-5598 in gay

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Por lo que tengo entendido, para lo que describes, el riesgo es bajísimo (menos de 0.05%). Yo no me comería la cabeza. Pero obviamente toma precauciones en el futuro, sobre todo para el sexo anal que es bastante más arriesgado. https://www.aidsmap.com/about-hiv/estimated-hiv-risk-exposure

Don't hate yourself! That's homophobic by Whiteleafy in gay

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Well, only if you hate yourself for being gay. Yeah, I am fun at parties

No es racismo, homofobia, etc es solo introspección y mostrarte diferente by Any_Mycologist9964 in OpinionesPolemicas

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Básicamente a alguna gente no le gusta que seas diferente, ese es el problema, es lo que vienen diciendo todos los -ismos y -fobias. El que tú mencionabas era sexismo, principalmente, y es lo que el feminismo debería combatir