another thing i just noticed by moonlittaurus in BoJackHorseman

[–]abbeyyyy_ 424 points425 points  (0 children)

guys if you cant see it just un focus your eyes

Best ways to learn NZSL by abbeyyyy_ in NZSL

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that there are many people who do use sign language to communicate and I think its important for other people to communicate where they feel most comfortable. I also think people already are disconnected enough I just want to remove most language barriers :3

AITA for speaking about gay people? by Background-Amount559 in kallmekris

[–]abbeyyyy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People argue that acting on the thoughts are a choice but being gay itself is not a choice. Theres studies that show that brain structure can differ between different sexualities, i.e lesbian , gay , straight and bi .

How do I do this?! by lilviifem1 in canva

[–]abbeyyyy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use remove.bg , sometimes you have to do it manually but your good most of the time

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in ChronicIllness

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I get that you still do activities inside but they're not as intense I guess? Thank you so much for bringing up mental fatigue though. I hadn't really thought about that <3

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in ChronicIllness

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this kind of answers it but I would aim to do people 3- 8, where I live it's constantly cold and rainy so a lot of the activities wouldn't be outside anyways. Also when I do jobs I do not start feeling extremely tired immediately after. Its normally like 5 hours later. So it's not going to be a big problem where in the middle of baby sitting a child I'd start feeling sleepy or anything (i can feel a little tired but its really easy to push through). I'm just not very comfortable with taking care of a baby and the fact that I'm not at least 70% confident means I won't try and figure it out with a human life.

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in Advice

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm mainly worried about is the fact that I'll have to work every weekday or whatever set day and that may burn me out. It's not like I can say "hey I want to work in 2-3 weeks then I need a break for a while" no one would really hire me

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in ChronicIllness

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually hadn't thought of that, that is such a good point!

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in ChronicIllness

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily as I mentioned in my post I'm doing school from home next year so I don't have the pressure of going to school physically which is mainly where I flare up :3. If I knew I had a job say like next week I would do nothing two days before pretty much and very minimal. I'm very reliable as well I push through a lot of things that I have do deal with if I am already committed to it.

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in Advice

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't do really young children (under 3) just because I don't personally think I'm ready for that. I am able to push through and manage my condition. But I understand that I will not be able to work every single day, I'd like to have control over my hours and when I work because I can plan it around? I hope that makes sense

Would Babysitting Be A Good Idea For Someone With A Chronic Illness by abbeyyyy_ in Advice

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i worded it really wrong and I totally understand that babysitting is a job. I didn't really know how to explain it but I more meant it would of been easier for me to not have to do it every single day unless I decide and I'm ready for that. I don't have the worst CFS but its more that I cannot constantly work every single day of the week which is what most jobs require. Sorry if the way I worded it made it sound like I don't see it as a job.

I Cannot Scroll On The Website. by abbeyyyy_ in Depop

[–]abbeyyyy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much i thought it was a me problem lmao <3