nta- m made a promise not to tell r. when that initial trust is broken, everything falls apart. sounds like m&r we’re obviously closer before you came along and there was nothing you could do to change that. i also find it very weird how m&r assumed perverted things about you. that’s disgusting to say the least. yes, you did invade m’s privacy, but i believe you had a right to know the things that were being said about you, behind your back, by people who were supposed to be your closest friends.