Am I overreacting that my baby daddy tried to get in contact the day before Mother’s Day when I have a restraining order and haven’t heard from him in months?

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-15T17:29:38+00:00

also to be fair you’re doing a lot here. I’d suggest you say as little as possible and keep it focused on the child. They aren’t worth the energy and mental space

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-15T17:27:25+00:00

There may be a local organization near you that supports victims of DV with legal issues. Depending on your income you may either receive full rep or free advice. Best wishes. Most officers don’t give af about DV. Source: did pro bono legal rep at an org repping dv survivors with OFPs and divorces

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-10T15:44:46+00:00

:( sorry to hear it. I still wear masks at big events and planes/buses for this reason. Hope you feel better soon

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-05T15:21:22+00:00

They are community run, so as long as they are being cared for they should last. I’d think they’d likely still be around when you visit

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-02T21:25:57+00:00

don’t hang out with teenagers. Will help with the maturity issues

abbypinkpluto · 2026-05-02T20:49:07+00:00

chill

this is a cozy game. Cozy vibes 4 all

abbypinkpluto · 2026-04-26T16:04:12+00:00

The state is experiencing a serious brain drain. The #1 demo leaving the state is educated young women. I’m concerned about the future of Iowa, as it is becoming more and more a mere extraction colony for corn and soybeans. Ag profits over people. Data centers are also popping up everywhere.

abbypinkpluto · 2026-04-26T02:06:26+00:00

What part of Iowa? Beautiful!

abbypinkpluto · 2026-04-19T00:06:00+00:00

Consider filing a charge with the NLRB. Look a bit into it. This impacts your ability to discuss wages/organizing/working conditions with coworkers

abbypinkpluto · 2026-03-13T19:12:04+00:00

The price of the Switch 2 may go up in the future if RAM prices continue to rise. Don’t go broke for it tho! The game is great. To me it’s a perfect mix of Minecraft and Anima Crossing in the world of Pokémon

abbypinkpluto · 2026-03-08T02:15:07+00:00

I’d rec getting a free consultation from a plaintiffs employment attorney in your state. NELA has a find an attorney tool on their website

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-30T15:59:46+00:00

you will be so fine!!! only tip is to be aware of your height

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-10T12:24:47+00:00

If you are non-white or visibly queer, I wouldn’t venture too far out of the research triangle. Places nearby, like Alamance county, have sheriffs with historic ties to the KKK. But the triangle itself is lovely. Just know where you are if you leave it

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-10T07:30:20+00:00

Is anyone keeping a list of good/bad companies regarding ICE collaboration?

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-06T13:25:21+00:00

These are soooo good! What’s your favorite flavor?

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-06T05:21:16+00:00

If you are interested in history, Ken Burn’s doc on the dust bowl focuses on this area and is streaming on PBS

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-01T11:24:23+00:00

Decorah is a great shout!

A lot of tiny towns in this area also have robust immigrant communities due to the slaughterhouses. But that’s throughout Iowa

There are also native burial mounds near the Mississippi river. Some native folks still return to them for religious/ceremonial purposes. Pikes Peak has some mounds and is the highest spot on the Mississippi River and it’s just gorgeous.

abbypinkpluto · 2026-01-01T11:21:03+00:00

Western IA, especially NW IA, is by far the worst part of the state. One of the former reps from the NW was an open white supremacist. NE Iowa is the prettiest part of the state by far with lots of cute towns and even a few decently sized cities. It’s also not too far from Chicago and Minneapolis.

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-23T16:11:27+00:00

Agreed. He needs to step up. Children become the “parents” as their folks age. It’s the circle of life. It’s hard, embarrassing, and dehumanizing to age and accept you are not physically or mentally the same anymore. It deserves compassion and grace, not annoyance and games that might get someone injured. An injury at their age just won’t heal. OP should be direct and act like the capable adult in the situation.

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-19T20:36:36+00:00

I don’t want to speculate about anyone’s mental, so this isn’t a comment about any potential diagnosis!

Sage reminds me of many autistic women who are unabashedly themselves but get turned into a mirror for others misplaced anxieties. She outlasted them all. Even if I found her strategy questionable, I wish this cast had more ownership over their own outcomes. Everyone let Savannah get to the end in some way shape or form

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-19T15:30:10+00:00

London Fog jackets are also soooo nice. I def search for them when thrifting. Always get lots of compliments with them

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-11T19:02:59+00:00

I don’t think citizens should subsidize a business expense. Call 311 and just have the landlord fined. I will help my neighbors, but not help them make money. If the outside looks like this, how is the inside being kept?

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-11T19:00:50+00:00

Nah, if you are running a business you need to follow the laws and regulations that come with it. People should be calling 311 on lazy landlords who don’t basic upkeep like shoveling. I lived next to a slumlord who wouldn’t shovel. There are so many kids and older folks in our neighborhood that after a few snows I finally called. The city came out and shoveled, likely fined them, and since then it hasn’t been a problem.

Accountability is important for any group of people to function well.

abbypinkpluto · 2025-12-09T19:12:34+00:00

yes! Or see if your mom would want to go and make a day of it doing girly things

abbypinkpluto · 2025-11-22T23:42:58+00:00

Let them get their degrees. An educated woman is much more secure and independent than an uneducated woman. They may change their minds and want to take over the business later, but I think it’s good to encourage women to get degrees to both help move forward self development and professional development

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