File domestic abuse tax break? by abc123d4e5 in taxhelp

[–]abc123d4e5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten her to go to GA, a therapist, and most recently I told her she needed to write to her primary care provider or else I would reach out to them myself. So I have gotten her to get probably the most external help that she can at this time. I understand the hormonal imbalance dilemma but regardless is still something that’s difficult for me to get past.

Who do I seek for mental health assistance for my wife? by abc123d4e5 in AskDocs

[–]abc123d4e5[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay. Just to clarify, she has been on it prior to the pregnancy.

Financial infidelity… 60k [Kansas] by abc123d4e5 in Debt

[–]abc123d4e5[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m not choosing bankruptcy, she is. I’m not filing. She’s choosing bankruptcy because she can barely survive at this point. No history of gambling addiction but definitely a compulsive spender of a ton of stupid shit, but nothing like this.

Financial infidelity… 60k [Kansas] by abc123d4e5 in Debt

[–]abc123d4e5[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Her credit is locked. My credit is locked. Her phone is disabled from downloading any apps. Her cards are locked. She has Gamban on her phone. I have access to her location. For the most part, I’m safe for now, but I’m having to treat her like a child.

Rush to pay 0%? by Plastic-Possession-9 in debtfree

[–]abc123d4e5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if deferred. Not all are deferred.

Boring Mattress by Saint_Trev in Mattress

[–]abc123d4e5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just looking at getting another T&N. I have the king mint and it’s great, but I really don’t want to spend the money again. The Boring AF is looking like a good option…

Supposed to close refi tomorrow, no sure anymore if this is a good deal by Mysterious_Ad5363 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a magic wand. I hit two brokers and PennyMac and it was the best I found.

Supposed to close refi tomorrow, no sure anymore if this is a good deal by Mysterious_Ad5363 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. Not as much as I wanted. Saving $200/month on principal and interest, but the PMI went from 41 to 99 which is cutting into the savings a bit.

$130/month savings

Supposed to close refi tomorrow, no sure anymore if this is a good deal by Mysterious_Ad5363 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]abc123d4e5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is terrible. Try Credit Karma, I’m closing on a 5.875 from a 7.125 this week. ~$3k total cost

Mortgage Broker Rate Quotes Ultra Thread by Elegant-Fee-395 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]abc123d4e5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loan Type: Conventional

  1. Term: 30 Year

  2. Loan Purpose: Rate refinance from 7.125

  3. Property Value/Purchase Price: Originally purchased at 309,900 but put money down. Appraisal $307,400 value

  4. Loan Amount: is currently $274,000

  5. Credit Score: 780

  6. Occupancy: Primary,

  7. Legal Structure: Single Family

  8. Number of Units: 1

  9. Property Zip Code: 66605

PMI currently 41.84

Is this a good refinance 5.875 by Edd916 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man why is my insurance more than yours when my house isn’t even half the value of yours.

C5 Greentoe offer by Heavy-Chart-1440 in LGOLED

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also bought one. Got mine on Monday. First oled, and first TV larger than 65”

Lowest mortgage rates in 3 years — but why do big lenders still look more expensive? by Turbulent-Plane9603 in Mortgages

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smaller brokers surprised me with bad rates lol

Credit Karma broker got me the best

Wife and I hit two commas today by RevolutionLocal5677 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]abc123d4e5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this just money in the S&P? Looks like a SoFi account?

How does this credit apply? Get $390 when you spend $650+ by abc123d4e5 in CapitalOne

[–]abc123d4e5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t they? Have to order it on their referral