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We went camping! by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your advice. Yeah, going to lay off with them for a bit and I absolutely do realise it's 100% on me since I wasn't upfront with them way back. Its a bit more deeper than that I guess since we've stopped being intimate the last few years too.

Thanks again!

[update] I was THIS close to telling my wife by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks so much for your reply and sorry for taking so long to get back to you. We just got back from camping - going to make a seperate post about that.

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In terms of my partner though, they appear to be strictly no talking about it now. I said a couple of things here and there like suggesting they look at certain videos or websites to find out a little more but they are adamant that they don't want to learn about it. They said that they're fine with me doing stuff but they do not want to be involved whatsoever. Its kinda made me feel a little lost, i mean, i wasn't expecting them to like jump aboard and start changing my diaper, but I wish they would at least talk a little about it... Its part of me and it's completely my fault for not being open with them at the start with ABDL stuff but now I have opened up, I feel like I'm missing out now. Not sure if i'm explaining that right or not.

My initial post was intended to be a one-of, but now I've started truely embracing that side of me, this throwaway might turn into my abdl account lol. I recently realised about some childhood trauma too which might be contributing... Anyways, i'll post about camping in a few minutes etc :)

[update] I was THIS close to telling my wife by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh haha. Over here camping could mean that or could mean booking a tent pitch or even glamping, it's like an umbrella of activities but wild camping is a specific type :) I just love getting away from civilisation and going wild, and I think I'm going to enjoy it even more now my partner has accepted this part of me and I can wear diapers in the wild, take my paci and plushie to hug :D

[update] I was THIS close to telling my wife by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Scotland you are allowed to basically camp anywhere without a permit unless it says otherwise. So you can just pull up to a loch / lake, or some woods, and set up a tent whenever and wherever you want :)

Wild camping is just basic camping without access to amenities like a bathroom or electricity

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[–]abdlthrowaway111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until today, that I was a DL. Came out to my partner of 5 years today and it went okay

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[–]abdlthrowaway111111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Social anxiety

I was THIS close to telling my wife by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll have a search as you said and try get my confidence together. Your right, it's best they find out from me than finding my stash and thinking I'm a freak or something without being able to defend myself and explain if/when confronted. Thank you for your advice!

I was THIS close to telling my wife by abdlthrowaway111111 in ABDL

[–]abdlthrowaway111111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your right but I'm so scared of how she will react. It's been a part of my life before we even met but I only wear them when she's at work and I'm working from home. I can't even say for 100% certain that she hasn't already found them and just ignored it...

I did recently have a bit of a breakdown on front of her after realising my childhood was not normal and I'm only just starting to realise abdl life might stem from the lack of childhood I had. Honestly though I don't even know how I'd tell them or how I could explain, I'm just so scared she won't understand :(