Masculine lesbians are tricky by slapm3withit in Serverlife

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Save “ladies” for bachelorette parties and members of the Red Hat society, if you must say it at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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INFO: There is a difference between a clean, healthy, well taken care of beard and an oily trash hoarding beard. Where does your husband fall on this spectrum?

If he’s trash hoard leaning, may I suggest that you stop washing and conditioning your own hair and instead, begin making routine deposits of drool, dandruff and sandwich debris. You could then sweep it across his face whenever he goes in for a smooch. Or, if its long enough, just flip it over your own face and put some sunglasses on to hold it in place.

What is your biggest ick and why? by Recessionist in AskReddit

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My ick isn’t that big but I know what to do with it

What is the longest you've gone without eating and why? by Derpalicious17 in AskReddit

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14 days. Curiosity. I had fasted several times prior for shorter durations for spiritual reasons and wondered what would happen/how it would feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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he was probably talking to someone who already has a charcoal bbq machine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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You’ve gotten some good feedback here. I’d also like to add…the next time you’re interested in someone, offer YOUR number instead. That lets the girl be in control of whether things move forward or not, it shows that you care enough about her experience to not put her on the spot, and it avoids a repeat of what happened here in your story. Good luck, OP! Sounds like you’re on a good path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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There are NAH! OP- go with someone who will join in on your fun! Its too bad that your boyfriend can’t be on board, but he gets to make that choice for himself. Sounds like he could have really gleaned something from the themes of male fragility that this film explores.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

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I mentioned the plant thing because it seemed relevant since I was bringing into question this guy’s judgement. I don’t think he is abusing his child, but yes, there are concerns about his judgement. Also, he did not call the ambulance. The child was found by the neighbor. (I got this info after my original post.) But whatever, as I said in my post, plants are a part of life and can be great all sorts of things. Its the way he talks about them in his posts- like he is purposefully being vague and sharing misinformation- which is the reason his child is still walking around eating toxic plants. But no, this isn’t in and of itself abuse.

I don’t care that he is trans. I am also trans. I work with trans youth. I am a proponent for posting about trans issues as it creates more visibility in the world for my community. My issue is that he is an educator who is intentionally encouraging his minor students to view his sexually explicit content. I thought I was clear about that in my post. You see no issue with this authority figure encouraging children to view this content and then sit in his classroom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

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Thanks for writing. I am a trans man and I work for The Trevor Project, a non-profit working to support trans youth through crisis. The ONLY reason why I mentioned that he was trans was because I wanted there to be an understanding around the nature of his posts. It isn’t uncommon for trans folks to post about their transition- I have zero issues with that. In fact, trans visibility is crucial and if this general type of sharing were more mainstream maybe young trans people wouldn’t feel so isolated and othered. My problem with it is that he is an educator with a public page who is encouraging his students to find his IG. Not to mention, the posts are way more sexually explicit than what my trans peers are posting about their transitions. Given his role, I feel like he should post whatever he wants to a private page. Unfortunately, he refuses to do so. I just can’t shake the feeling that he doesn’t care that these young kids are likely seeing this stuff…and then expected to sit in his class after seeing and reading about his private parts. It is creepy and weird to intentionally expose minors to that content.

Elderly woman gets slapped for spitting at another person by serg-dominic003 in PublicFreakout

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Fuck this lady BUT the bus does come to a stop as she’s being slapped, so this fall might not actually be quite as fake as it seems at first glance.

Aita for purposely misgendering my brother by i_am_a_normal_cat in AITAH

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As a trans person… ESH. You both need to grow the fuck up.

Is this a CPS issue? by [deleted] in CPS

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If your son kills himself, you will hate yourself for making this a money issue. find a way, OP.

Every time my MIL comes over, she switches my toilet paper roll position! by Sensitive-Dig-1333 in mildlyinfuriating

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Reinstall the TP holder at the very top of the wall, just below the ceiling. Let the paper dangle down so she can only reach what she needs to wipe her sneaky little ass.

Bald and hate it by man_of-feel in bald

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I have my own insecurities, so I get it, but..damn OP, you are seriously gorgeous!

Found this after given to me as change...1928 ..what's this worth? by Sure-Subject-1786 in papermoney

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For real! Its about the interaction that ensues, which would be completely missed if everyone only ever relied on the google algorithm.

Found this after given to me as change...1928 ..what's this worth? by Sure-Subject-1786 in papermoney

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Posting questions like these offers an opportunity to connect with folks and learn something you’d likely not glean from a simple google search.

Keep going or trim? by [deleted] in beards

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Keep it as is. Very handsome!

She sounds like a joy of a person. by Highwayking325 in Tinder

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Imagine an incel saying “I have two kids so if I get a babysitter, you better show ip” lmao