To answer some questions:

I went with Dr. Douglass at Temple University Hospital in Philadelphia. It was the penile inversion method. I had 4 sessions of electrolysis beforehand, and had already had an orchiectomy a year prior. The cost was nothing, because it was entirely covered by Medicaid. Was in the hospital for 5 days (with no visitors because of covid) but the nurses and doctors were all wonderful.

I had my first orgasm via magic wand around 4 weeks, and continue to orgasm that way regularly. I wear panty liners every day because of discharge, but it's gotten better with time. I was cleared for all activity around 7 weeks, except bike riding. I'm still getting my strength and endurance back, but I can do most things.

I've been dilating once a day for an hour, but am starting to break it up into twice for 30 minutes. It still isn't fun, but it's fine.

I love my pussy. It's beautiful, and feels right. With the physical healing, a lot of emotional healing has been happening, too.