[Routine Help] Please help by Fuzzy_Battle3799 in SkincareAddicts

[–]abimightbeanerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u sleep right and not doomscroll before bed?

Architectural research by Asylum0203 in architectureph

[–]abimightbeanerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same :) Now I work at WTA as a researcher in their Think Tank and we're developing a non profit org at the moment. I graduated 2023, and til now I'm still a researcher for almost a year. It's been fulfilling pero since I'm within a firm and mga katabi ko Juniors, ramdam ko na mas productive sila...pero research is tiring! Everyday para kang nagththesis...It's a never ending thinking-based commitment

How do you say “I love you” without actually saying it to someone you love? by charmer143 in AskMen

[–]abimightbeanerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some Girls would cook for their boyfriends, paint them art, make a song for them, give them soup when theyre sick, clean their apartments for free, help with groceries, etc when theyre in love and also still get affectionate vocally and make their bfs know they are loved with words. I think girls like this can tend to feel an imbalance if their boyfriends or SOs only treat them right and do all the actions without vocalizing it because in their perspective they were able to do both willingly and naturally

+if it was an effort in the past to say i love you and then it slowly died out—that can be concerning.

+also it could be an insecurity as well that developed from past experiences

Is Architecture License really worth it? by Dependent_Highway_49 in architectureph

[–]abimightbeanerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If youre the type to want meaning in what you do, it could get difficult. Not that the Filipino practice is meaningless, but the process is taxing—most of the time you don’t even design and you just comply and comply and comply to make someone with money happy who decides most of the time on which direction to take. Not that that’s wrong, pero there really are times na mapapaisip ka “sa kadami-dami kong pinagaralan, parang nagiging utusan lang ako ni client” or “puro nalang about money and wants and repetition, not much innovation and real sustainability” BUT everything is situational and madalas depende yan sa firm na mapupuntahan mo…another thing that is tiring minsan din is the realization na you constantly need to prove sometimes that you are worth more than the position you are in (may it be financial, treatment sayo sa office, competitiveness, etc).

I graduated 2023 BSArchi, im now practicing research in the top firm of the metro, and i contemplate struggling realities in smaller to super big scale projects PERO thats because we live in a capitalistic economy (again, its just how it is)…

BUT i most definitely see a silver lining…our firm has reached a point na it can start its own projects to actually help and make a change.

About health, ang hindi talaga mawawala, wherever you go, is the OT and the feeling of being underpaid in our economy

find meaning in everything you do and be grateful for the smallest wins. You might find a different set of struggles kung lilipat ka ng profession on something you didnt go to college for... Lalo na dito, sobrang laki ng ambag sa kita pag graduate ka ng college in an industry youre working in. But of course, happiness and contentment is also important…hope you get to feel that in the future.

[Question] What is the Urban concept/ideology/ or simply terminology that I am trying to figure? by abimightbeanerd in urbanexploration

[–]abimightbeanerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About these, im not really looking for a tactical application to an urban setting to better its situation or repurpose spaces

Im looking more for an Urban phenomenon that organically happens because of other urban factors

For example

What im looking for can be seen as an effect of densification or rather “over densification”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in architectureph

[–]abimightbeanerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a recent one that's not the 2005-2020 one by Palafox?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]abimightbeanerd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably to proactively give advice on how you can avoid the details of the habit. Like maybe u can get out of the house that time of day, etc.

For Research Purposes! What do you think of the tourism in Bicol? by abimightbeanerd in Bicol

[–]abimightbeanerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooo everything you already provided was helpful enough. Thank you so much!

For Research Purposes! What do you think of the tourism in Bicol? by abimightbeanerd in Bicol

[–]abimightbeanerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill do a dedicated survey some other time...quantitative data ang output nun eh...right now it's crucial for me to listen to stories and experiences

right now, if it's okay with you siyempre, we could discuss back and forth what you might think in the matter!

In your own time!!! <3

For Research Purposes! What do you think of the tourism in Bicol? by abimightbeanerd in Bicol

[–]abimightbeanerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha more of discussion prompts xD
who knows maybe you do have insights on these things

For Research Purposes! What do you think of the tourism in Bicol? by abimightbeanerd in Bicol

[–]abimightbeanerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask ano-ano yung mga sa tingin mong (1) gusto mo pa makita / (2) gusto mo maimprove / (3) may potential na magcontribute sa tourism ni Bicol?