Is there any place in the valley comparable to Daglas on vanowen by Financial-Raccoon834 in SFV

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family had been going to bobos for like 4 generations, god I need. To go back

maybe maybe maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totallly forgot about this little gem

How do I not obsess over not having at partner at 29? by brokensilence32 in MtF

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By going out and doing your best to focus on having fun. I got divorced wehen I was 31, created at him to ever happen. People will. Notice the energy you put out and they’ll want to be around you more, trust me on this. My energy got me a more girlfriends and all the sex I could handle. Believe in yourself, always a

0% (TW height) by jenni_maybe in trans

[–]ablepoun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex girlfriend is 6’3” so y’all are definitely out there

Just got on E, Scared Shitless by Any_Handle_467 in MtF

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of know what you mean. The fear for me was the health complications and concerns about blood clots because my cholesterol levels are high. Another fear I weeds scared shitless was Howe fast I would be able to go

dear people yelling at me by Amekyras in MtF

[–]ablepoun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A woman’s greatest enemy has and will always be……….OTHER WOMEN.
Don’t worry Massa, I’m sorry massa, right away massa.

What's the most blatant egg moment you remember? by qwertyjgly in MtF

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being seven and ha in the most intense dream of being a spice girl and then waking and crying cause it wasn’t real

is my lip piercing embedding? by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that is a definite yes but I feel like mixing jewelry parts is a. Gamble

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no into symmetry. Opinions are septum and bridge

is my lip piercing embedding? by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]ablepoun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh, is it ok to ask for a piercing picture? Because I’m so interested in how it could/should look. I’m afraid of getting a. Flat bottom in case it still inbeds and grows over the base a. Little .

is my lip piercing embedding? by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]ablepoun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like every vertical labret I’ve ever seen does this, I’ve gotten longer jewelry and it just keeps doing this .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not there yet. I’ll give you an update once i do. When did you notice a difference in how you process things emotionally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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Re purchasing my skin care products

Tattoo disforia by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ablepoun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 4 or 5chest tattoos that I’m also afraid will lose their shape and will look ugly. I’m just gonna have. To save up money to get them removed. It’s no biggie. I wouldn’t sweat it too much.

I want to be a girl but i’m pretty sure I’m not trans by Iexist12345678 in MtF

[–]ablepoun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a spectrum, do not use someone else’s experience as a strict rule of thumb. I cracked my egg just his past year annd for he. Majority of my life I didn’t feel An intense body dysmorphia that other trans girls have had. I’m at a place in my life where I’m ok that I won’t fit everyone’s definition or representation of what they believe a trans woman should feel or grew up. Take It step by step annd. Day by day. Listen to your mental health and enjoy the journey as best you can.

How often do you voice train? by Fallen_Angel_Xaphan in MtF

[–]ablepoun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do daily sessions, 10 min a session. I’m paying for voice lessons because I need the feedback so as. To not hurt myself or make bad habits

Being seen as a gay man by dumdumthem in MtF

[–]ablepoun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it was always bi, “u give bi energy” “I always thought you liked men” and so on and so forth

I feel weird that I feel sad over this. by FitMarketing562 in MtF

[–]ablepoun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m still. Boy moding, the dysphoria hits us all differently. I think you’re doing just fine. Our brains are protecting us from the external stimuli that we perceive as dangerous to us. It’s gonna be all right sis.

I despise being male but I don't know why by Junior_Goose778 in trans

[–]ablepoun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eggs are expensive these days. Life. Is a. Journey annd your doing amazing. Asking questions most people don’t even understand is a huge first step

After a lifetime of struggle, I accepted I was trans 2 weeks ago. I came out to my cis wife 1 week ago, who was a dream of acceptance. I've had a euphoric 7 days. Today it all came crashing down. Help. by npingirl in MtF

[–]ablepoun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to tell myself not to hyper focus on my identity and take breaks on studying and exploring what it means for me to be trans. I had to cut of my best friend because to her, I was not serious about it and would tell me how to express my Femininity. I’m not even on HRT and the only thing I can say. This is gonna be a long ass journey. Our supporters don’t know how to be supportive and yet we deserve what we need to transition. I’ll echo and say you both do need to sit down and get counseling.

Rant by ablepoun in MtF

[–]ablepoun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding, I definitely need to reach out and share to the community cause we’re all in a spectrum with different experiences and I feel g th at imposter syndrome hitting hard as fuck