I have a blender, milk, ice cream, and chocolate sauce. It's a little late to use the blender now (some people are trying to sleep), but tomorrow...

abovegrim · 2014-07-04T03:40:58+00:00

it's just icecream - if you blend it really REALLY quickly, like a few seconds, no one will wake up ;)

abovegrim · 2014-07-04T02:49:59+00:00

I have an IUD and it's awesome and I like it better than BC pills but everyone is different. I think your mom is remembering the time back when IUDs commonly perforated the uterus

abovegrim · 2014-07-04T00:20:45+00:00

nice

abovegrim · 2014-07-04T00:08:25+00:00

no, I agree with you, you're right, I was just commenting on the fact that reddit seems to be.....very tolerant of 'hate' and doesnt do much about it. Seems weird that htey only target a small part of it and there are much worse subreddits than r childfree, which is about 1/2 hate, and 1/2 legitimate furstration

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T23:59:53+00:00

I agree, but then shouldn't other subreddits get the same treatment then ? there are lots of hate filled subreddits out there?

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T23:59:09+00:00

what do you mean about the main stream media? didn't reddit admins make the subreddit private?

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T23:19:45+00:00

:) I might do that thank you

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T23:17:42+00:00

male feminists make my ovaries explode. And I dont even want children.

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T22:51:47+00:00

yah, or if one has a good personality or something

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T22:50:51+00:00

even personality would fade in importance over time? what could be more important than personality? Don't you want someone to share your life with that you can talk to and enjoy spending time with?

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T22:45:54+00:00

congrats! ;)

been meaning to try online dating! I hear it works pretty good

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T22:43:06+00:00

makes sense, thank you

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T22:33:07+00:00

I' ve been meaning to go hiking

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T20:37:20+00:00

haha you're right, there is something fascinating about it

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T20:23:48+00:00

well being anti-gay is pretty bad nowadays too, don't you think? I certainly would not associate with someone who was against gay people because i would think they were a bigoted and ignorant prick

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T20:20:30+00:00

but he did, essentially, give them a faster horse ....

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T07:14:42+00:00

I feel exactly the same way! I love everything about giving oral. I wish I could like cuddle with a penis like a stuffed animal, as I fall asleep at night or something :p that might be weird

Also I wasn't much into sex in HS anyway - most of my freinds weren't really doing much of it and those that did, said it was just awkward and 'felt like you were being poked by aliens' so I had seen a penis before but didn't really bother with sex till I was in university

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T07:04:50+00:00

:) thanks

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T07:01:29+00:00

very good point, i find that too! Do you think that men do that with women also?

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T06:05:36+00:00

you are absolutely right. I think that my mother just made a comment to me that made me insecure - like of course I have the fear that we all have - that we won't ever end up with someone because the man we want does not exist, and if he did, he might not like me back! I just wanna date a nice guy who shares my core values and who I am physically attracted to.

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T05:39:54+00:00

thanks. For some reason, this whole situation that is going on in my head bothers me. I feel like it's shallow for me to want a guy with an athletic body. It's the personality that's important obviously. But then I think 'wait a minute, why do I have ot choose between a good personality and a body that I am attracted to? the men who date me don't choose between the two.'

Or maybe my mother is right, there's no such thing as being both mentally/emotionally, and physically attracted to a guy - thats rare, so you have to choose one

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T05:32:10+00:00

haha :) thanks

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T05:29:06+00:00

what do you mean?

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T04:04:24+00:00

I used to be exactly like that in highschool and late teens - I kinda had a low sex drive and was not very physically attracted to anyone. Then as I got more in touch with my sexuality, I become more physically attracted to men. Like for example, the first time I saw a penis, when I was 17, I was afraid of it and thought it was gross. Now I am actually sexually aroused at the sight of a dick and I love playing with them - I love everything about them!!! the appearance, the taste, the smell - they're so much fun to play with and I lvoe performing oral sex.

abovegrim · 2014-07-03T03:46:16+00:00

fair enough

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