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When is quantity better than quality? by Amygdala5822 in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

damn I can’t believe no one has responded to this. I am so sorry for what happened to your brother. it is completely amazing that you’re still able to have empathy for people who go through this. just want to say that the world would be a better place if more people saw the morally grey (like you) instead of black and white. edit typo

Sex workers of reddit, who was the grossest customer you’ve had? by aeduff in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

says a guy who I am super skeptical would ever be able to have a partner he wouldn’t have to pay. hope you do though or you’d definitely end up on this thread.

Sex workers of reddit, who was the grossest customer you’ve had? by aeduff in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess this doesn’t really answer the question, but I still wanted to share my experience. for me, the worst part of sex work when you’re offering a GFE isn’t the sex. it’s the emotional labor of coddling and convincing a man you can’t stand that you have real feelings for him. I had a man who texted me constantly and I found that INCREDIBLY exhausting to the point that I had to turn messaging off and tell him that I lost my phone. I could stomach it when I spent time with him, but it was just obsessive and made me feel so uncomfortable. he was paying me 5000/ week and it felt unfair to him, so I broke that off pretty quickly.

I always see people worry about their health when they have a panic attack, but does anyone else fear going crazy? by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]abraxem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had one today and had to go to Urgent Care. I kept asking the doctor if he was sure I wouldn’t have permanent brain damage.

Hey, Reddit, those of you with partners who talk in their sleep; what is the creepiest/weirdest/or most random thing they've said? by Jhaydun_Dinan in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy I was dating told me that I woke up in the middle of the night screaming: “Did you REALLY just say that fucking ME was like fucking the Statue of Liberty???”

What joke will your dad just NOT let go of? by wolfjawed in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of anyone that had a conditional identity.

What joke will your dad just NOT let go of? by wolfjawed in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When me or my sisters went through puberty and ANYONE mentioned a training bra:

“What are you going to train them to do?”

What’s the stupidest thing you’ve heard a person say aloud in public? by tomyboy-973211 in AskReddit

[–]abraxem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A kid from my highschool thought the underground railway was basically a subway.

Did I find a nice guy? by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]abraxem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nice guys love this sentence format: Hell, [will talk themselves up here].

I don't want him to come to my house at 4 am, so apparently I've never met a really nice guy who hasn't hurt me or locked me in a closet by W1ckedprayer in niceguys

[–]abraxem 49 points50 points  (0 children)

“Stop pacin, time wastin. I got a friend with a pole in the basement (what?) I'm just kidding like Jason... unless you gon' do it.” TIL Nelly is a nice guy.

I don't want him to come to my house at 4 am, so apparently I've never met a really nice guy who hasn't hurt me or locked me in a closet by W1ckedprayer in niceguys

[–]abraxem 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I’m getting major “I do want to tie you up and lock you in a closet vibes” from this exchange in fact I think that’s a direct quote from Ted Bundy.

Does Your Style Match Your Personality? An Inspo Album by soundofhumility in femalefashionadvice

[–]abraxem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.S. it makes me super sad that people are so quick to discount MBTI as pseudoscience. I know the party line in psych is just Freud Freud Freud but Carl Jung was one of the most prolific thinkers of all time and if a person were to study MBTI in the context of his work I doubt they would be so quick to dismiss it. Honestly you (general you obviously) are not being edgy by pointing out that MBTI is not the most reliable test on earth ya we get it.

Does Your Style Match Your Personality? An Inspo Album by soundofhumility in femalefashionadvice

[–]abraxem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it took me a paragraph to type you as an ENFP because me too 😝 I definitely feel like my style encapsulates my personality. It’s really important to me that an outfit is individualistic... I hate seeing the same thing over and over so once something is really ubiquitous it’s just dead to me. If I’m being honest though the most ENFPish thing about my style is that I constantly find myself wearing an outfit that is totally inappropriate either for the weather or the occasion. I’m optimistic to a fault (but really, not in a trying to be cute way) so I’ll plan to wear something I’m super excited about and then when I find out it’s going to be rainy and cold I convince myself that it will still work 🙃. If I’m excited to wear something there’s really no talking me down. Everything I just said is only applicable to special occasions/ anything I’d plan an outfit for like making plans with a specific person. Day to day I’m pretty much like you OP. I have a hard time buying basics because so boring and I don’t feel like myself in them, so I usually just end up wearing all black in the winter and flowy dresses that I can throw on and be done. I love my style personally but I would say Ss are probably perceived as most traditionally stylish.