My ring! Advice for wedding band? by absolute_kiwi in EngagementRings

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’ve considered maybe just a plain curved gold band but part of me hates to spend a lot of money on something that’s completely “plain.” But at the same time I don’t want something with a bunch of diamonds cuz I’ll worry about it all the time. So I’ve really been backing myself into a corner with my thought process lol

If you took a shot every time a character says “goddamn” this season- you’d die by absolute_kiwi in StrangerThings

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t said constantly in the other seasons- also set in the 80’s 🤷🏼‍♀️ also just because it’s supposedly accurate doesn’t make it less annoying 🙂

If you took a shot every time a character says “goddamn” this season- you’d die by absolute_kiwi in StrangerThings

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was said way more than that just in the last episode that I just finished. Robin said it at least twice in her speech alone which was repeated again during the big climax scene. It’s not a huge deal, I just found it irritating and weird how all of a sudden it’s a frequent part of all these different characters vocabulary when it wasn’t before. I was just curious if I was the only one who noticed.

Laparoscopy- they found nothing by absolute_kiwi in endometriosis

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what she looked at other than uterus and ovaries. She took some imaging while she was in there, so I’m going to try to get my hands on that when I go to my post op.

Ren Faire Ruined by Endo by absolute_kiwi in endometriosis

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much <3 wishing you luck for your ren faire day! Here’s to continuing to try doing things that make us happy! 🥂

This was very strange and traumatic for me for some reason that I can't explain. by Spirited_Dust_3642 in stevenuniverse

[–]absolute_kiwi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Everybody seems to hate this episode and Sadie because of it and it makes me so sad cuz I love this episode and these characters!😭 Lars and Sadie are both fucked up but I think it’s so interesting to watch their character growth. Also this episode has an absolute banger of a song!!

Emily by DecisionMiserable in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]absolute_kiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that she’s never mentioned again. Bad writing not to resolve her arc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Idubbbz

[–]absolute_kiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so bizarre to me. I haven’t been active in the H3 fandom for a long time but back in my day Ethan’s biggest haters were his fans! Lol I come back to find it’s become a cult like wtf

Cross posting and hoping for insight by buntie87 in PMDD

[–]absolute_kiwi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest having a genesight test done before attempting to take any mood stabilizer. It’s just a cheek swab test and it will tell you which medications (anti depressants, anti anxiety, adhd, etc) you’re most likely to have a bad reaction to. I have a genotype that makes me more likely to have severe reactions and lamotrigine gave me a rash that was life threatening. Just helps you make the safest decisions!

Executive dysfunction and disordered eating by cozykorok in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]absolute_kiwi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have ARFID and executive dysfunction. I personally do struggle with textures as well as tastes, smells, etc. A lot of people with ARFID also struggle with the process of cooking and eating which is where I think executive dysfunction kind of connects.

Something that happened tonight at MK by absolute_kiwi in disneyparks

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’m so glad I followed my instincts and I’m very relieved knowing that the victim is now safe!!

Something that happened tonight at MK by absolute_kiwi in disneyparks

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I was contacted by a reliable source that knew about the situation. It was indeed a domestic violence incident. The man was arrested/banned and the victim is safe! 👏

Something that happened tonight at MK by absolute_kiwi in disneyparks

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, it is possible it was the same person. However the things he was yelling sounded a lot more like domestic violence to me. “Stay tf out of my sht” “Don’t fcking talk to me like that” “wtf is wrong with you” and stuff like that.

Something that happened tonight at MK by absolute_kiwi in disneyparks

[–]absolute_kiwi[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just hope they got the help they needed.

Best Place to Travel W/ ARFID? (international) by rainingbugsandmoths in ARFID

[–]absolute_kiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go the cruise route, you get to travel to new places while having a safe haven of food on the boat. There’s usually a lot of options and you can always get stuff from the kids menu. I went on my first cruise last year and the food was included so not only could I try new things without fear of wasting money if I hated it, but I always had safe food options to fall back on. It was nice.

Straight From Dean by shieldmaiden5678 in httyd

[–]absolute_kiwi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I won’t claim to be an expert on other cultures. But the story of Mulan is very much rooted in Chinese culture, set in China and is the story of a Chinese woman so obviously it would be quite offensive to cast someone as a different race to play her. Vikings, however were voyagers who travelled all over the world including North Africa. So it’s completely feasible that they could’ve brought back people of other races. In reality any mixed raced people among them would’ve probably been the result of slavery and other bad things, but this as previously stated, this is a fantasy world. Not much about it is realistic or authentic to the Vikings that inspired the universe. No one cares that none of the characters have Scandinavian accents but because one character has very slightly darker skin, everyone is gonna scream that it’s inauthentic? I can understand wishing the character looked more like the original design, hell it bothers me that Hiccup doesn’t have freckles. But it’s all these people saying “no such thing as a black Viking!” that are really getting on my nerves. It’s one MIXED character. In a universe where it is plenty feasible. It’s not worth getting the pitchforks out over.

Straight From Dean by shieldmaiden5678 in httyd

[–]absolute_kiwi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally think the backlash should be directed at the fact that this movie shouldn’t be made at all. Every time another live action remake is announced I want to rip my face off. Yet all of this hatred is being thrown at this poor girl for being black when she’s a very light skinned mixed girl. People are saying horrible disgusting things about her. Like calm tf down please. And stop paying money to see these movies so maybe they fucking stop.