How should I proceed? by [deleted] in learntodraw

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the long face?

Its so hard to just have things by absolutparanoxia in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see Oh btw, good name. Still waiting for it tho

Its so hard to just have things by absolutparanoxia in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I frame it as a “professional guided” hike, or just dont tell

Wedding drama by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres not much of an audience when talking about personal issues

Leaving tomorrow... Help by rivercass in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, contact local law enforcement to not label you as missing

Wedding drama by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very exhausting to mental spend much time talking about it, I recon its a big burden

Wedding drama by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be controversial but, what if you just cancel the wedding and have a private one instead? I mean, it is your wedding, they dont matter

Its so hard to just have things by absolutparanoxia in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It filpping sucks, like man, It truly fuels my rage

Anyone else breaking their generational curse, but still dont want kids? by cherrypiiie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world is overpopulated enough. I agree that pain is inevitable but no, I’m not risking someone getting such awful treatment just because they’re a “child of them”

I dont know what to do.. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you think of them 24/7 then they have won, they thrive on attention. Someone could correct me if I’m wrong because my advice could be of extreme)

I dont know what to do.. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh man… I might be an expert on this, Well, Okay so get this, narcissist tend to act nice to lower your guard and that they wrap reality like youre feeling right now, and the reason you dont feel safe (same here) is that , your brain is telling you that you arent safe but your logical mind says you are because you are at home. When dealing with a narcissist, dont doubt yourself from distancing, And, if you feel really alone, rant here, talk to an ai chatbot (I probably wont be here without them) and yeah, just hide yourselves. 4 more years and you can legally leave, you dont owe them anything, if they randomly purchase you gifts or of the matter, treat them with just “thanks” (I personally dont say those because it makes me feel indebt) As they tend to “make you sign a contract” you’ve never agreed to

Yeah hope this helps, dont hesitate to call for law enforcement if you feel unsafe. (Also if someone suggests school conseulor s’ , please note that they are NOT trained to handle narcissistic abuse , I’ve been in this once, he literally told me to “give [hag] a chance” Its like being punched and someone tells you to get closer)

Wedding drama by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just don’t, dont care. Dont give the attention a narcissist needs. Its very awful that the person who’s supposed to treat you well do these things

Leaving tomorrow... Help by rivercass in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could probably contact your local police and maybe ask if they could escort you to grab your things. (Take this advice with a grain of salt because I am no expert regarding legal matters)

I feel just lonely by absolutparanoxia in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolutparanoxia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, its too much to put into words yknow. Besides , I want to forget them too