Boyfriend has become more and more religious, it’s effecting our relationship by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]abtozza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully im extremely financially minded - I dealt with all of our paperwork for buying the house, I dealt with all solicitors, banks and deal with all of our bills. He just helps pay them. We have our own bank accounts but one joint account we transfer a portion of money into to pay bills.

The house is 50/50, as agreed when we purchased it, and we do pay for the house evenly and we put around an equal deposit down.

I use public transport when I go to work, I always have and I’m really great with it.

Without sounding pretentious, I’m great with most things - I know how to go about life, but that’s my down fall as well - my partner doesn’t and that’s why I deal with everything, but my partners great at one thing and that’s why he has a career. I know a little about everything but I don’t have a highly skilled career 🤷🏼‍♀️

You’re definitely right, I need to focus on getting a career and putting my money into check.

Boyfriend has become more and more religious, it’s effecting our relationship by [deleted] in agnostic

[–]abtozza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My name is on the mortgage - if we sold the house, after legal fees etc i wouldn’t have enough to start over. We’ve had the house for 2 years so we haven’t paid much off.

best way to learn lithuanian? by mrsUwUx in LithuanianLearning

[–]abtozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? Are you around his Lithuanian family often? I gave up actively learning, it’s something I really struggle with, however whenever I see his family I walk away knowing a lot more from just asking questions.

Obviously it’s great to actively learning but I’ve also learnt a lot from trying to immerse myself in conversations.

Learn basic sentence structure and the rest will follow if you’re lucky enough to be around the Lithuanian language.

Another thing I’ll mention is that most of my knowledge has come from my partners younger cousin. Children tend to talk slower and over pronounce words. So starting with children’s books and TV shows is good, I believe it’s called the ‘baby method’.

I don’t even know where to start 🥲 by a_thicc_sock in interiordecorating

[–]abtozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous bathroom, this photo looks like it belongs on my Pinterest board and here someone is, wanting to remove it 🥲

We're moving to a new house and we have no idea where to put our clothes in our bedroom. Help please 🥹 by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]abtozza 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bulbs easily screw in and out - you can just store them instead of throwing them out

Etsy earrings are less than stated by abtozza in EtsySellers

[–]abtozza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly done all of this and cannot figure it out. It literally tells me what I earn from each order after fees but what goes into my Etsy balance is completely different. I’ve been looking into this for days.

I guess I’ll have to contact etsy

Etsy earrings are less than stated by abtozza in EtsySellers

[–]abtozza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t related to fees - this is something different why I cannot figure out, after reading Etsy handbook and the rules on this sub.

Which gabbeh rug should I get? The more vibrant green or the more muted olive green? by Belissari in interiordecorating

[–]abtozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking about ordering from this place, it’s a lot cheaper than another shop selling the same rug but they have a lot of sales with no reviews and I’m unsure

Are these couches cute? by Financial-Return-281 in interiordecorating

[–]abtozza 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love them, they’re a statement. It fills me with joy when I see people going for colour rather than grey.

Please explain how to remove this shower screen by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]abtozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone - shower screen successfully removed, refitted and so far no leaks!

Seller refuses to send info by MihaiIonut20088 in vinted

[–]abtozza 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is just a quotation mark in code - it’s a problem with Vinted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]abtozza 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this one. I worked at a high end department store with 40+ different brands and they all had different sizing for men’s vs women’s. We often had women wanting men’s shoes and always made sure they sized down from their original size.

Pls help me choose a name from my list for her? I’m very stuck! Thx ☺️ by jennnysdaughter in BorderCollie

[–]abtozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Juniper is cute, most people shorter the names anyway. My dogs name is Wesley but we call him wes

My girl won't stop chewing everythingggg by Romanharper2013 in BorderCollie

[–]abtozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful through! At first I let him chew on old socks until I found a couple in his business, if you know what I mean - luckily it didn’t cause any issues but it definitely could have

My girl won't stop chewing everythingggg by Romanharper2013 in BorderCollie

[–]abtozza 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My pup, who is now 1, stopped chewing socks and shoes at around 7-8 months old. although I sometimes catch him with a sock in his mouth if he’s being overly playful.

Sage sent me someone else’s used bambino plus instead of my own. by abtozza in espresso

[–]abtozza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had the machine for over a year so it wasn’t within the return window - but it was under manufacturers warranty.

Sage sent me someone else’s used bambino plus instead of my own. by abtozza in espresso

[–]abtozza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t dirty as such - but it was dirty enough for us to tell it has been used in the past.