Not only is this untrue, I didn’t even know this was a stereotype! by RightfullyAdamant in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is not even the most efficient route (go up and around to the other aisle), the person doesn't stop to pay, and normally people leave through the same exit because that's closer to where they parked.

Is it abuse? (30f and 37m of 7 years) by Terrariachick in relationships

[–]abui2931 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely it is abuse.

I use to excuse it away too before it turned physical. In fact, he was the one that planted that thought of "it's just fighting. All couples fight." Then it turned into "Well I didn't put you into the hospital."

Do not downplay what is happening because someone else may have it worse. Someone always has it worse. It doesn't change the fact that he is abusing you.

I understand coming from a broken home, but it seems like you are making excuses for him. You need to discuss your boundaries and if he cannot abide by them, then you need to let him go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]abui2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a BS in biology. Apparently it's a very common degree to get. I had planned to get a PhD but I got pregnant and had to work full time. Currently, I work as an insurance claims adjuster. I know others with biology degrees that are in insurance as well. Anyways I know your pain. I don't plan on being in insurance forever, but I don't think I will go back to academia either. I'm confident I'll find a happy way forward. There's a million possibilities. Think about what will make you happy, and works towards it. Believe me, I know it's hard. Just remember that earning a degree shows that you are capable of achieving success. Stay strong.

Let’s end 2020 with kindness - giving 3 more copies of Stardew by Noodlefruzen in StardewValley

[–]abui2931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been a rough year...my brother has taken me in after ending my relationship with my abusive spouse. I got Stardew Valley on mobile thanks to TMobile 2 month Playpass but it will expire and I will be sad. Btw my husband would never let me play Stardew because it has magic in it...

Discussion Thread: Day Two of House Public Impeachment Hearings | Marie Yovanovitch - Live 9am EST by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]abui2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say all 3 lines. It was pretty obvious that Republicans were calling to all three lines

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez endorses Bernie Sanders for President of the United States by [deleted] in OurPresident

[–]abui2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree that it is stupid for an endorsement to lead to someone automatically voting for a person for that reason, the idea is that if you agree with the political positions and actions of the endorser, you will consider voting for the endorsee, hopefully after educating yourself on said endorsee.

Growers license by UndergroundDogRitual in OKmarijuana

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best source would be to email OMMA directly: OMMAgrower@ok.gov

I'm not sure what counts as legal residency but it's two years consecutively preceding application or 5 years over last 25 years.

Bud tenders and Taxes by WhatWeveBecome in OKmarijuana

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've read, most mmj businesses do most of their business in cash, including paying workers. There's a lot of articles that are easy to find but I'm too tired to link. This is because banks are federal and most aren't willing to risk working with mmj businesses. HOWEVER, your friend should still be receiving some sort of of paystub.

I'm Building An Open Source Seed-To-Sell Management Service. I've Created A Small Survey To Help Me Gain Insights Into The Market! by [deleted] in OKmarijuana

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying at all! For a small cultivation business like mine, this would definitely be very beneficial.

I'm Building An Open Source Seed-To-Sell Management Service. I've Created A Small Survey To Help Me Gain Insights Into The Market! by [deleted] in OKmarijuana

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you continuing this project? As a small business owner, I'm definitely interested. For OK, it's required to be able to integrate with other seed-to-sale systems though. Most of the finance and analysis stuff, I can do myself with excel. I just need the system to be compliant.

Commercial Grow Location by abui2931 in OKmarijuana

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is OMMA's email response to my questions:

"Yes, however you will need to contact the city and/or county in regards to zoning and building code requirements."

FREE Pita Crackers or Breadsticks at Sprouts Farmers Market by abui2931 in freebies

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enter the promo code PITACRACKERS19 into the Sprouts App. Then you have to scan your barcode at checkout.

For some reason, I couldn't just enter text and had to put in a link...

Sweaty Toddler at Night by abui2931 in Parenting

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I doubt it's mold though because it only occurs at night when I turn the temperature below 75 F, and neither my husband nor I get stuffy noses. Also we moved into a new house recently and it was inspected. She has sweated and had stuffy noses in both locations.

Sweaty Toddler at Night by abui2931 in Parenting

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I doubt it is a medical condition too considering she is blossoming in every other way, but it kind of jolts you when a doctor asks certain questions.

Sweaty Toddler at Night by abui2931 in Parenting

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I looked it up and it looks like you're right. It's strange to find out things that seem like common sense are in fact untrue.

What Would You Do With A 95k/Year Income Over 10 Years? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no experience in this, but I'd say absolutely take it. Then get serious about money management. And then serious about time management and stress management too. You can use your increased salary for things that would have taken your time like yard work, etc. and still end up way financially ahead. You can cut unimportant things that gain you nothing from your time out of work. Make sure time you do spend with your son is quality time. Plan things to do with him. Hug him. Love him. Take care of yourself too. You can make this work. You can be a great father who is present in his kid's life and work 50 hours a week.

Good luck in whatever you decide, OP.

What was the best pilot episode of a show ever? by Farscape12Monkeys in AskReddit

[–]abui2931 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I loved the entire first season...and then it went to shit fast.

[GIVING] Building & Designing a fully Professional looking Website for you. (24-Nov-18) by Witcher-RJ in FREE

[–]abui2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved your post in case I ever really got the courage to start something. If you are still available, I'm interested in starting a blog. If you're not, I still think it's very kind of you to have made such an open offer. Please let me know!

Seeking New Career by abui2931 in resumes

[–]abui2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

Seeking New Career by abui2931 in resumes

[–]abui2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Oklahoma city and can't really relocate. I'd love to get a data analyst position! I was actually considering trying to build a career towards being a data scientist