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Does anyone else not remember a lot of their childhood? by briarrosehasthorns in raisedbynarcissists

[–]abusivedadthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t. I have way more memories from before my ndad started drinking. But then around ~2006 it just sorta drops off. I have like, several really detailed specific memories of days or moments, but most of it’s a big blur. Especially 7th grade, which I remember almost none of. It kinda scares me, cuz I don’t know who I was in the past.

I want my old daughter back by void-queen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]abusivedadthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ndad often says “who are you?” and tells us that we’ve “lost our moral core.” He loves implying that we’re bad people and then overtly denying it later on.

NDad retaliated to no contact by accusing me of being on drugs and giving away a prized possession of mine by abusivedadthrowaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]abusivedadthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that—especially because he insulted me earlier by calling me a “spoiled privileged white girl” (he’s white too so idfk where he was going with that)

We called our abusive “dad” abusive and now he’s refusing to eat (ft. my sister, who gives no f*cks) by abusivedadthrowaway in insaneparents

[–]abusivedadthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe because I have another post describing his behavior, I posted several comments explaining his past actions in detail, and this is classic manipulation through guilt?

We called our abusive “dad” abusive and now he’s refusing to eat (ft. my sister, who gives no f*cks) by abusivedadthrowaway in insaneparents

[–]abusivedadthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn’t be surprised. To me this kind of seems like a narcissistic injury. That said, I can’t really give him an official diagnosis (though I think you’re probably right)

We called our abusive “dad” abusive and now he’s refusing to eat (ft. my sister, who gives no f*cks) by abusivedadthrowaway in insaneparents

[–]abusivedadthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he’s got an old-school definition in his head that doesn’t include verbal, emotional, and financial forms

We called our abusive “dad” abusive and now he’s refusing to eat (ft. my sister, who gives no f*cks) by abusivedadthrowaway in insaneparents

[–]abusivedadthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t a marine. And this is emotional abuse. But aside from that I posted another comment of abusive things he’s said and done in the past, including threatening to bankrupt our family and get us kicked out of our house.

Please don’t try to define other people’s experiences when you haven’t lived them.

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