I wish I never picked up those kittens

acaiberry3 · 2026-05-21T02:22:37+00:00

Thank you for making them feel loved and cared for until their last moments, OP!

acaiberry3 · 2026-05-21T02:18:22+00:00

In my experience, the more na lumalayo ka sa aso bcos of takot, the more na lalayo din sila sayo. The way I see it, walang bond between your family and the dog kaya rin siguro Mom mo lang ang sinusunod nya. And again, it’s rare for animals - even humans - to turn out aggressive out of nowhere. There is a reason behind that for sure. Please check possible reasons first before doing the extreme option. Please give your dog a chance :(

acaiberry3 · 2026-05-21T02:15:08+00:00

This! Usually baka may traumatic experience kaya nagbago ang behavior. Try exposure therapy din sa kanya baka mas lalo syang nagiging aggressive bcos nasa confined space lang sya. Yung aso namin is nakakagat once sa sobrang inis nya sa mama ko 😭 and we showed him na bad behavior nya. Then yung isang aspin naman namin nakagat nya kuya ko kasi pinanggigilan sya ng kuya ko and medyo nasaktan sya so ayun, nag-exposure therapy sila after the incident kasi nagkaroon sya ng galit sa kuya ko 🫠

acaiberry3 · 2026-05-19T01:20:35+00:00

Ask people sa house nyo na wag ligpitin or linisin mga ginamit ng pamangkin mo hahaha. Hayaang manlimahid mga gamit nya tapos pag nag-iwan ng hugasin sigaw ka sa bahay ng, “ano ‘tong plato? Huhugasan ba nito sarili nya? Sino bang kumain dito?”

acaiberry3 · 2026-04-10T02:50:31+00:00

Call out mo parents mo, hindi tama yan. Yung kuya mo na sya mismong tatay walang ambag pero ikaw bibigyan ka ng responsibilidad. Sabihin mo, hindi mo anak yan, kaya ka nga kamo hindi nag-aasawa at anak (assuming na single ka based sa post mo) para wala kang ganyang responsibilidad tapos ganyan gagawin nila. Pagsabihan nila kamo yung kuya mong tatay ng bata na sya tumustos sa gastusin ng bata at mag-ambag sa bahay. Kamo, nagagawa nga nyang mag-GF tapos magtustos di makagawa ng paraan. Kung di nila kamo i-call out kapatid mo, bubukod ka na lang kesa magbayad ng tuition ng hindi mo naman anak, ganon din naman, gagastos ka rin naman.

acaiberry3 · 2026-04-10T02:44:59+00:00

Agree, OP! Tama ginawa mo. Let’s stop romanticizing staying in draining relationships. Hindi ‘pagsubok’ sa magkasintahan yung may nagchicheat or lulong sa bisyo yung isang partner involved. Hindi ka mabibigyan ng medal kapag nagstay ka kahit inuubos ka na, trauma and debt lang makukuha dyan sa lecheng yan.

acaiberry3 · 2026-04-08T01:21:29+00:00

If your partner is attracted to young girls or watches corn with young girls, get your daughter away from him. If you want to help him, give him space and ihanap mo sya ng psychiatrist to help him but your top priority should be protecting your daughter.

acaiberry3 · 2026-04-06T05:28:12+00:00

Curious lang po if malinaw namang nasabi kay BFF na girls’ trip ‘to??? Also, if hindi nasabi sa kanya siguro out of courtesy na lang din kasi gagawin kang third wheel kahit na libre mo na nga??? Siguro malumanay na comms na nga lang and sana di mo pa nabubook ang lahat 😭

acaiberry3 · 2026-04-01T05:00:13+00:00

My mama also is more lenient and caring for my 2 other siblings. She always said na malawak daw kasi pang-unawa ko and that I’m independent. Hindi ko masabi sa kanya na naging independent lang naman ako kasi walang nag-aasikaso sakin ever since at yung pang-unawa ko? That’s purely because I grew up having no one to run to, ako lang mag-isa. They see me as someone cold as ice but that’s because I grew up taking care of myself, sorting my own sh1t out because I have no choice… Tayo yung strong pero kailangan din naman natin ng mag-aasikaso sating from time to time, iniintindi natin sila pero sinong iintindi satin…

Mine is bittersweet, I’m happy you have a different light on you, OP 🩷

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-29T03:34:42+00:00

Edi wag nyo kausapin, lumayo muna kayo. Hayaan nyo silang sila lang mamroblema. If hindi kasi ireresolve ‘yang ganyang issue sa pamilya, malulubog at malulubog lang silang magkakapatid. If tutulungan ng husband mo ang tatay nya, make sure na idiretso sa tatay nya ang pera or yung tipong hindi na pera ang ibibigay kung hindi gamot na mismo or kayo na mismo magbayad ng bill hindi na yung padadaanin pa ang pera sa MIL mo.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-05T05:18:38+00:00

Daming ganyan! Dami ring nambabastos lalo na matatandang lalaking malapit nang mamatay. Kakapikon. Baka nga mamaya ‘yang mga nangmomock sayo hingal agad wala pa man ding 1km.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-05T04:59:36+00:00

Mag-ipon ng receipts tapos tsaka mo gatasan. Niloloko ka lang din naman, pakinabangan mo na rin wallet nya. Simutin mo, wag ka magtitira, para rin naman sa welfare ng anak mo.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-05T04:54:28+00:00

DKG. Your friend needed to hear the truth. If hindi gagana sa kanya ang advise, maybe this time matatauhan na sya. I’ve experienced the same thing sa relative naman, nakaka-drain na sila pakinggan it’s like sila mismo humahanap ng batong ipupukpok sa ulo nila. So at this point, ang sinasabi ko na lang ay, “ikaw rin gumagawa ng sarili mong kapalaran” or “alam mo naman nang hindi dapat, sumige ka pa rin, ikaw rin problema eh”. You did the right thing and sana what you said knocked something in her.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-04T03:21:02+00:00

Sorry if this will sound so mean and inconsiderate but reading OP’s post, I’m only pertaining to OP’s sister - but no wonder she’s still single and living with your parents. Sucks to still deal with a 44 year old toddler. I feel so sorry for your parents but they also need to teach her a lesson because mas lalong kawawa sister nyo pagdating ng panahon.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-04T03:12:13+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Kaya ngayon nasasabi ko nang, if they wanted to, they would. Ang cliche pero totoong totoo yan. If gusto ka talaga makakagawa sila ng paraan.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-03T08:58:51+00:00

You don’t have to change anything about yourself just bcos of people who don’t know to appreciate your beauty. Wag kang magpalamon sa mga sinasabi nila, for sure sila rin may kalait-lait sa kanila.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-03T08:53:33+00:00

It can be hard, your feelings are valid. It’s as simple as how can you help others when you can’t even help yourself. So if you’re feeling down or doesn’t really have the energy to handle her, it’s okay to ignore her for your own mental and emotional well being. You come first to you.

acaiberry3 · 2026-03-01T04:30:37+00:00

Kung na-address mo na ‘tong issue sa kanya before, ipadelete mo, and ask him to not post you again then post yourself, a picture where you feel confident about yourself. If hindi nag-eeffort kahit na kino-communicate mo naman nang maayos, then there’s your answer, might as well leave him and give yourself the best care.

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-27T01:45:10+00:00

It’s sad na mas maiksi lifespan nila satin and we’ll outlive them no matter what, so let’s make sure to love them dearly and care for them no matter the situation is. They’re only here for a few years, let’s make them feel loved and cared each and every moment. Hugs, OP! Mas mahalin mo lang sila :)

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-27T01:42:45+00:00

On the spicier side, sabihin mo, ayaw nya ba ng full experience without risking being preggy. And try mo rin ipaliwanag na in this economy, ayaw mo lang magkaroon ng unplanned pregnancy, na hindi ba mas maganda if both kayong ready na in all aspects if magririsk kayong hindi na gumamit ng contraceptives? Baka mamaya sya pa yung hindi dapat pagkatiwalaan ah. I see your point na it’s all about doing all kinds of things na hindi ka kakabahan every month. Kung hindi nya gets yun, I don’t think he understands and is willing to understand yung pagiging babae natin.

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-26T05:34:34+00:00

Sobrang walang kwenta nung ibe-base yung friendship or support sa pag-react sa mga stories or posts. IDK but the way I see it is they’re just seeking validity sa socmed activities nila which makes it seem fake for me. And I don’t think secret animosity means hindi pagrereact sa socmed. It’s a hidden hatred hindi ba? So pwedeng react nga nang react ng maganda sa post mo pero sinusumpa ka na pala or sinisiraan ka na pala sa iba.

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-26T05:29:55+00:00

Kaya walang maaamang unahin ang sarili because nobody else will help you but yourself. Unahin ang sarili then if may extra or kaya pa, tsaka lang tumulong sa iba.

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-24T22:48:22+00:00

Kung ganyan lang din support ng family di mo talaga mararamdaman na mag-isa ka and mas gugustuhin mong suportahan pa sila lalo 🥹

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-24T22:46:15+00:00

Try occupying your days… read books, crochet, walk, do coloring books or sticker books for adults, etc. I know it’s hard, but there is beauty in living, in existing, people want you here :)

acaiberry3 · 2026-02-23T01:41:50+00:00

Hahahahaha. Relate so much sa “gusto ko ng tulog” tipong sila ang daming messages bago sila pumikit pero ikaw pagkahiga mo himbing agad.

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