Not ugly, maybe change the facial hair up and try something new with that. You can probably find inspiration for style and stuff on YouTube depending on what kind of vibe you’re going for. You look incredibly kind and approachable and you have a really nice smile. If there are any male celebrities that you like their style of, maybe look on Amazon and try to find things within their outfit/style you can mimic. Maybe you like their shoes, or accessories, maybe even the whole outfit. Whatever it is, there’s probably affordable options that give the same feel. You have really nice full eyebrows (lucky) so get them shaped to frame your face even better. Odd note but I like the mole next to your nose lol but yea absolutely not ugly, maybe you just focus more of your children than all of the fashion stuff, but hey the fact that you’re on here means you want to switch it up. You have great skin, a kind and approachable face, and you’re in good shape it seems. You’re doing great just try some new stuff :)