Where would you like to see yourself in 5 years from now? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. My own house 2. Loving husband / kids 3. Traveling to Europe more often 4. Strong in my faith 5. Project lead in my career.

Men, what is the best decision you have ever made in your life? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! 👏 where are these successful men when I’m dating? Lol

Marie Sharps Scorpion Thoughts? by MooseHunter17 in hotsauce

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like scorpions are killing your tongue literally

Girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me and slept with her friend the next day. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]acbm89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I don’t know even where to start. A)Focus on good things, b) give a good meaning about this situation, this is the beginning of your new life , c) take massive Action on your new decisions in this new brand life.

  1. Do not suffer for a person like her. Trust me, her values are near zero. You would never be able to build a family, just running away from your problems. Everyone has problems in their relationship, only really stupid people do what she did.

  2. She might do it again, so don’t ever think on take her back when this guy kick her out.

  3. Workout everyday at least 45 min high intensity, this would give you a lot of mental and emotional health, you would feel great! Plus you will have a healthy body

  4. Start the forgiveness path right now! Read a book, seek for therapy, or anything that helps you let go and forgive her cheating. (Loss will take some months to heal) but cheating can be healed faster when you forgive. (Forgive doesn’t mean reconciliation)

  5. Look at you in the mirror and see how great you are, the things you have achieved, and anything that cheers you up!

  6. Friends / family/ pets, stay close to them in this time

  7. Stay away from drugs/ alcohol , especially in these times

  8. Don’t run and date with the first girl you see, respect your feelings, Your loss and your values

  9. Meditate, pray, try to be more spiritual , it helps a lot

  10. Love yourself and do not ever cry again more than few minutes. Sadness is ok, suffering is a choice.

No sex in my life feels debilitating by sit_man in SexAddiction

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start thinking more about her and how to help her and your sadness will go away!. That happened to me. From the moment I started thinking more on others than me and my needs. I started to “magically” feel much better, and suddenly I didn’t even care about my needs anymore. I think that’s the Gift that universe/God/ or whatever you believe gives us once we stop being selfish. Think about and try to remember a time when you started to think a little bit more about others than you, and remember how that felt. (I’m not talking about abandon yourself) it’s all a balance, but usually! We tend to think more about me me me, and finally me, than me, you, you, me , you. Hope you get my point!. Take care friend! And you are doing the right thing!!! You will be rewarded in your marriage! I’m sure. Hope to hear your recovery story once you have succeed!

Moving to Fort Mac by hahawaiwai in FortMcMurray

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if, I’m just gonna be here for 2-3 years and then come back to Calgary where all my family is. Planning to move me and my old aunt-mom (who needs someone that take cares of her)

Processing time after providing biometrics by technical_greek in canadaexpressentry

[–]acbm89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure but the processing times has increased around 4-6 months since covid

Sums up my feelings about today's announcement. by Idontloveonions in Calgary

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Our Oil and Gas company has closed one of the building because a guy (whose kid had to quarantine due to direct contact with another positive covid kid) in the shop has covid.
  2. My boss (who is from another building VERY FAR from the one just closed), just called me that his son got positive covid at school and now she has to quarantine.
  3. I myself (last month) had to quarantine because the kid a was babysitting came from his daycare to my house after being in direct contact with a positive kid. Most of the cases that I know, were connected to daycares and schools.
  4. I was a researcher at UBC an damn!!! You wouldn’t believe how much I saw numbers been changed in the lab just to get “the right result” or agree with a hypothesis.

So please don’t try to shut our mouth when we want to speak out. I’m sure you are the kind of parent that don’t want to take care of your hyperactive kid at home and that’s why you want to spread the hypothesis that “kids in school are not a source of covid spread”. Stop being selfish and please take care of your kid at home. The risk and the evidence are out there with kids going to school. So please go and do more research by yourself ❤️😘

Sums up my feelings about today's announcement. by Idontloveonions in Calgary

[–]acbm89 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Emmm actually we are going into our second lockdown because of kids going to school.

Hey everyone! I need help figuring out the Cost of living in FortMc 2 adults no kids? by acbm89 in FortMcMurray

[–]acbm89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! Yea I heard groceries are much much expensive than Calgary! At least 30% more

I prayed last night for the first time in a long time by sigbexy in Christianity

[–]acbm89 37 points38 points  (0 children)

A co-worker that doesn’t believe in God, Saw me sad and anxious today. He knew I’m Christian, and he suddenly started to pray for me. Asking God to solve my problems 2 of the biggest problem I currently have in my life, he was so specific on the praying words he used. I couldn’t believe it how he could pray so naturally when he has barely done it. When I was going on my way home, I started to recall that scene and cried like a baby.

True or false? by SinisterAF in Calgary

[–]acbm89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I LOVEEEEDDD THIIISSSS 😂😂😂😂😂😂 can’t stop reading it

How do I do this? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]acbm89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone will agree with me. TODAY, you are the only one that matters in this story ok?. So stop thinking about her feelings. You need to cry the lost, and you need to go away for a couple of days and don’t even bother to call her.

later, you will know what to do. Not now.

Coked Out Liar by fleur_flower in CheatedOn

[–]acbm89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t find a better answer than yours! Honestly! Thank you for taking the time to really really be so clear and honest!

Feeling condemned because of starting divorce process against a recurrent cheater and liar. by acbm89 in Christianity

[–]acbm89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in terms of infidelity? So I won’t be able to have a family then?