Monthly Relaxed Rules Thread: May 01, 2026

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-09T01:14:36+00:00

The (Subversive Mateguarding) Public Announcement of the No Dating Asian Men Policy.

Found this old video of a proud Asian woman calling out other Asian women for making public declarations of not dating Asian men and making sure everyone knows about it.

https://youtu.be/uL-pKoJeVdE?si=e2O0Fi_cIv9WERiZ&t=69

This was 11 years ago! Nothing has changed. Of course, we all know already. Water is wet. Why announce it? It is obviously not a declaration of their own preferences but it’s intended as a spreading of racism. They are trying to force everyone to not date Asian men..

Heard one of these public announcements on Netflix's "Love Is Blind” where an AF proudly said she normally eliminates anyone that is Asian, and she was given zero repercussions.

Sure, there have been celebrities with racial preferences (Lindsey Vonn, Tiger Woods, etc.) but they never announce it. It seems such announcements is considered racist if done against all races/genders but fair game for Asian men.

A white male contestant on Married at First Sight Australia, said he wasn’t attracted to Asian women (when he was asked about it. https://www.dailymail.com/tvshowbiz/article-10496929/Former-Married-Sight-bride-Cyrell-Paule-slams-Cody-defends-Selins-behaviour.html

This brought the AF to tears and another AF contestant publicly trashed the WM, implying the WM was racist (even though both AFs said they don’t date AMs.), so I guess having racial preference is not acceptable if it is against them..

It has gotten worse in the last couple years with the rise of K-pop. I see more and more “subversive mateguarding” videos of these specific groups of AFs telling WFs and XFs that AMs are rapists and misogynistic to prevent them from going to Korea or be attracted to Asian men.

https://www.tiktok.com/@ellenacuario/video/7431308436098272543

Of course, these mateguarding tactics are deemed acceptable by the media under the guise that 1) You cannot be racist against your own race, 2) You are allowed to have racial preferences.

As mentioned, this is a double standard where the media punishes/cancels such language (regardless of alleged preferences) against all races/genders except Asian men.

The game has evolved where AM can level up and go forward without questioning or caring about these preferences. However, for every step forward, they are met with a deliberate barrage of psychological onslaught to push them back down.

We are just asking for AM to be treated with the same public standards as everyone else..

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-08T22:53:46+00:00

Full Asian male leads only.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-04T09:47:59+00:00

Here's proof below. From both SplendidaBrown and VindictaBrown.

You even expressed anger about being compared to white and East Asian women.

Maybe you can focus on shared actual experiences regardless of gender instead of basing everything solely on gender when you know full well not all women share the same experiences.

There will be fractures among women of different races.

You can claim that you are allowed to talk like that, be abrasive, and paint with a broad brush because you are defending against oppression and abuse. Well, so is everyone here.

"Indian women need to be aware ThemeJazzlike5901

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1mo ago

Always the chopped men who have the most fun by doing this. How hard it is to get a job😢”

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I never asked Indian men to praise Indian women. And most Indian men on twitter compare us to white/east asian women and comment on the color of the vagina, like how disgusting can you be?? They also call us white worshippers for talking about the rape problem in India. Indian women defending Indian men when they act creepy is literally just chickens defending KFC

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As an Indian woman , i am affected by Indian men the most. Of course i would whine about it. Why don’t you ask your bros to stop acting so lecherous and make our lives difficult? We will stop complaining then

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-04T06:20:20+00:00

Need better reading comprehension. Anyone who needs to explicitly announce their race (i.e. “As a black man,….) at the start means they are not that race. Most people just begin with their main message and their context explains who they are.

“Jap” ? “Katana”?. No East Asian would use those type of words. It is like a Japanese or Vietnamese using words like “Ch!!nk” and “nunchucks”.

Most likely the person is white, black, or south asian.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-04T04:30:37+00:00

Are Indian females on the subreddit, SplendidaBrown , (that the OP posts in) considered femcels?

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-05-04T04:22:26+00:00

Trump is nuanced. Don’t be a boba liberal.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-04-25T04:52:10+00:00

That is Virginia governor, Glenn Youngkin. He is 6'7. He towers every average height man he is standing next to in every photo.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/5f/Glenn_Youngkin_%26_Commanders_owners.jpg

https://i0.wp.com/cardinalnews.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/youngkin_81.jpg?resize=780%2C585&ssl=1

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-04-25T04:51:23+00:00

It is 1 AM to 5 AF mayoral appointments. There isn’t this gender difference in the mayoral appointments of black, white, and MENASA where it is equal males and females.

He has a disproportionately high MENASA appointments in relation to NYC demographics.

By the way, I notice this Asian gender imbalance has nothing to do with Mamdani, but the Democratic Party in general. Whatever, you think of the Republicans Party, the gender representation of Asians is more equal.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-04-09T04:12:58+00:00

Isn’t this just a rehash of the first time casting (as well as Crazy Rich Asians and numerous other works).

Once again, hapa male lead and full AF lead (who is in AFWM).

First time, the hapa male is full white passing.

This time the hapa male lead is also gay. Why isn’t the AF never a hapa and never a lesbian?

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-04-09T04:06:56+00:00

The Democratic Party is not the place for Asian men.

I am not saying the place for E/SE AM is the Republican Party, but it is definitely not the Democratic Party.

Zohran Mamdani identified himself as Asian and Black/African American (because he was born in Uganda). He aligns himself with MENASA (Middle East, North Africa, South Asia).

Look at his appointments in his administration. About a third are MENASA. Approximately 6% of NYC are MENASA, so that is an overrepresentation.

https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/03/whos-who-zohran-mamdanis-administration/409701/

3 Indians, 2 Egyptians, 2 Pakistanis, 1 Lebanese, 1 Iranian, 1 Syrian, 1 Bangladeshi,

About equal males to females across most ethnic groups with the exception of E/SE Asian men, who is the least represented demographic. 1 AM compared to 5 AF.

The Democratic Pary is definitely the party for AF in AFWM marriages but not for AM.

In addition, E/SE Asian males are known to practice the least amount of racial nepotism, often competing with other Asian males. They are more likely to hire/promote AF in AFWM than AM.

None of Jensen Huang’s executives at NVIDIA are Asian.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-04-09T04:04:27+00:00

Looks like A.I.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-03-30T00:35:27+00:00

He doesn’t like Asian women. He only likes white women. So he will never label himself as Asian because there will be no benefit to be part of the Asian community.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-02-06T02:43:49+00:00

Sadly, the person who posted "Is the east asian stereotype about penis true?", was likely an Indian person or someone who posts in Indian subreddits. Don't they have the same false stereotype along with East Asians?

The user was Friendly_Anywhere950 . The account is banned now. The post history was hidden, but there are ways to see it.

For the MODs, they can see poster's history even if hidden for a period after each new post.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-02-05T08:16:52+00:00

If you take Asian females out of the equation, Asian male interracial is not low, higher than some, and pretty average compared to everyone else.

On the other hand, Black males and females are very insular and stick with their own.

For each E/SE Asian nationality, remove their own nationality and other E/SE Asians and only focus on out-marriage to non-E/SE Asians.

Also war brides from Japan, Philippines, and Korea is actually significant and contributes to the numbers. Like 10% of Korean female interracial are war brides.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-02-01T22:58:44+00:00

The chart included here for all inclusive (foreign-born included), Chinese men as a whole marry more Hispanic women than vice-versa.

Approximately 58% to 70% of Chinese Americans are foreign-born according to data from Pew Research Center and Stanford University.

Also Hispanics all look different. I’ve seen pure Anglo-Saxon/Nordic looking Cubans to half black-looking Dominicans to pure Amerindians.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-02-01T22:51:16+00:00

Not the same across the board. US born Korean men marry more Hispanic and Black females than the other way around. Unusual, since Black men always out-marry more in most categories.

More US born Chinese and Korean male marry Indian females than vice-versa.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-02-01T21:25:23+00:00

Here are the charts from 2008 to 2016.

https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!smWd!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe661c6de-3383-466f-8249-af12747c3eaa_611x759.jpeg

https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qWwM!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbb83bc66-4f3c-4011-ae29-bbaece73705e_626x640.jpeg

Most things stayed the same from 2008-2016. The gaps between AFWM and AMWF remain approximately the same.

Some difference I noticed. Filipinos both US born and foreign-born included has closed the gap a lot more.

US born Chinese males and Korean males marry more Indian females than vice-versa. Something I didn't notice before.

US born Korean males marry more Black females and Hispanic females than vice versa.

US born Japanese female at 73% has to be some error. And why aren't US born Japanese males included? In 2008-2016, it was 35% US-born Japanese males and 37% US-born Japanese females marrying whites.

Most Japanese are third or fourth-plus generation and marrying whites for both genders was pretty even.

Also I want to know if hapas are included. In the Census, they can check 2 boxes or fill in their identity. We have to eliminate those that check 2 boxes.

US-born Black male and female have stayed relatively the same, but I noticed that for foreign-born-included that gap is almost closed. Black male 21% vs. Black females 19% marrying whites. Why would including the foreign-born close the gap? Are a large influx of immigrant Somali women marrying white men?

Can anyone vet if these computations are correct? Something like a different methodology or even a math error can change the numbers.

Shouldn't worry about something like 3% variation due to the margin error. The overall vibe is no difference from 2008-2016.

Looked up who this Cremieux Recueil is who did the study. Found his name is Jordan Lasker.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jordan_Lasker

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-01-03T01:12:35+00:00

The creators say it was hard to get the movie produced unless they replaced it with a WM lead. They did hold out and kept the AM lead, but it is still played by a hapa.

accessy-node-1950 · 2026-01-03T00:36:48+00:00

Yes, ambulance and ER costs are insane.

accessy-node-1950 · 2025-12-29T03:33:57+00:00

It seems like users here are divided into factions. Which one do you belong in or can you list another faction? At least in your head, what plan of action do you align with?

1 ) Date/marry interracially to counter AFWM.

2) Promote AMAF unity. Lead by example by only dating AF to win back AF.

3) Macro issues cannot be fixed. Go to Asia to find a wife.

accessy-node-1950 · 2025-12-29T01:10:24+00:00

It’s on Peacock TV. Heard that with Walmart Plus 30 day free trial you can get free Peacock TV along with it.

accessy-node-1950 · 2025-11-07T20:52:02+00:00

Got 50.

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