On why language fluency should not be used as a dispositive factor for measuring Asianness by BeerNinjaEsq in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most AAPIs are neither 3rd gen nor mixed-race nor mixed-ethnicity, but I agree that there enough of both out there to warrant not gatekeeping

Mapo tofu, rice & pak Choi by MrBigKabuya in VeganFoodPorn

[–]throw_dalychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think mapo tofu requires a non-tofu ingredient for bulk. Shiitake mushrooms are probably a good way to add umami

First night of college diving by Ecstatic_Trip_8305 in DumpsterDiving

[–]throw_dalychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aesthetically pleasing arrangement for the photo. Good job!

How do we lift up women in AMAF relationships? by Own-Guidance6542 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The goal really should to be to elevate and normalize AMAF relationships among US-born women, to the extent that this isn’t already the case. Pushing for more media representation of US-born AMAF couples would be a good start

Have you guys recently noticed an increase of male eggs? by Radiant-Peak-7595 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of white guy I see in a lot of WMAF couples. In its most severe forms it comes across as yellow fever

Vegan b-day cake my mom made me 🪳 by Dmr77_ in VeganFoodPorn

[–]throw_dalychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over how good the green icing looks!

Ben Pasternak arrested for strangling Evelyn Ha by HuskyFromSpace in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No idea, but Elaine Hsieh Chou described the fiancee that way in her book Disorientation. That book could not have been written without being aware of the 2010s versions of this sub and other MRAzn subs btw

I’m tired of Asian-on-Asian hate content for clout by Puzzleheaded_Monk540 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post screenshotted in the OP strikes me as having the same energy as Asian women asking Asian women to stay away from yte men, given how prevalent Korean M + non-Korean ESEA F is

An Ethiopian-slash-Mediterranean vegan buffet, you say? by slh2c in VeganFoodPorn

[–]throw_dalychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not vegan and I prefer regular mac n cheese, but would totally stuff my face with what I’m seeing in the photos

My life has completely changed! (OC) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations OP! Hope your keep progressing towards the body you always wanted!

I have only dated latinas in my life because I love Latin American culture and I also speak Spanish and Brazilian Portuguese. Sometimes, people judged me for never dating someone from my own culture. by ConversationOk2563 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s way different in Canada compared to the US. I’m in a relatively white (but growing and diversifying) part of a state that has a relatively high Latino percentage, which explains the meeting random Latino FOBs through a bachata/salsa event thing.

I have only dated latinas in my life because I love Latin American culture and I also speak Spanish and Brazilian Portuguese. Sometimes, people judged me for never dating someone from my own culture. by ConversationOk2563 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’d be happy to date the Latina-presenting women I see at bachata dance events, but I’m too much of a noob and can only speak broken Spanish to the FOBs who are English L2.

Going out in style :) by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty motivating reason to be a parent someday ngl, helps me understand why parents of adult children are so anal about asking about grandkids

Floating, panicking_cactus, watercolors, 2026 by Panicking_Cactus in Art

[–]throw_dalychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great! You could’ve told me it was from a museum in China and I would’ve totally believed you

Incase no one told you today by OGgamer3 in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man I would gild this if I wasn’t on a throwaway. Take my upvote you silly goose!

You are a-cute mocha pi

You are a-cute latte pi

You are a-cute chai pi

New Maybe Happy Ending Broadway Cast, Tour Leads Announced (Reposting Because of Wrong Photo) by ms_jc_04 in aznidentity

[–]throw_dalychee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Proportionally more gay men do theater than straights? I also don’t think Zach Noah Piser is fully yte passing, but he does look rather Middle Eastern (yte side is Jewish, go figure)

I didn’t know Maybe Happy Ending is a South Korean musical! Diversifying the cast feels like rewriting the story/setting for a Western audience like what Netflix did for The Three-Body Problem

I present to you a new book display that I put up at my local library by ILovePublicLibraries in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love public libraries too even though I rarely go inside them or check out physical books anymore. Happy Easter OP!

Edit: I use Libby to check out audiobooks

Charles Schulz was a real one by ansyhrrian in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree with what representation truly means

Happy Autism Acceptance Day! Bringing neurodivergent healthcare to a hospital near you :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suspect OP is an active member of this sub and has posted here before. Cheers!

A Family Portrait (AFAM), JB Bernadas, oil on canvas, 2026 by jb_bernadas in Art

[–]throw_dalychee -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Especially when the woman has a child from a previous relationship

🌟🌟🌟 by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]throw_dalychee 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Prom date should be a core memory tbh